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My sister passed away on Feb. 17. I'm thinking of her a lot lately and thinking on the week prior to her death. She was having trouble with confusion coming and going. And her panic attacks were so bad that she would not let me out of her sight. Even when her daughters were with us she still would panic if I left her even to go to the restroom. She would pull on her oxygen tubing frantically pulling it into her lap. She was panicing that she did not have her oxygen on but it was running and on her face. That last week was terrible for her and me. She knew that her time was soon and it was. Just one week from today she passed. That last day was horrible.
My husbands brother passed away on the same day but a different year. Is there some meaning to that? We don't know.
My husban and I have bee extremely sick the last few days. He thought he was sick enough to die but he kept telling her that she was not going to get him yet An today he started feeling bettr. I'm a day behind him so with luck tomorrow I'll feel alive.
I kind of think that the remembrance of what we went through with my sister took a toll on us and reduced our emune system. I still miss her beyond belief but I am finally coping better. It has been a terrible terrible year, all year.
My husbands brother passed away on the same day but a different year. Is there some meaning to that? We don't know.
My husban and I have bee extremely sick the last few days. He thought he was sick enough to die but he kept telling her that she was not going to get him yet An today he started feeling bettr. I'm a day behind him so with luck tomorrow I'll feel alive.
I kind of think that the remembrance of what we went through with my sister took a toll on us and reduced our emune system. I still miss her beyond belief but I am finally coping better. It has been a terrible terrible year, all year.
Many years ago I was counseling many people that
come to my home at all hours of the night. I helped many but I soon found myself becoming drained. Eventually I too became physically ill. My teacher (healer) told me that they are draining you of your powers and that they are many that feed upon your powers and this is when you feel drained.
Now when I talk with people I have to limit myself . I fix a pot of coffee and when this coffee is gone then it is time to continue oor conversations at a later date. If I am drained with one person then I am unable to help others.
It takes time to get over such an ordeal but it sounds like you are taking the right steps. You are in my prayers...Chaplain Turner
Your sister and brother-in-law are in a better place now, and they want you to be happy. They loved you, and your happiness means everything to them.
I'm sorry you are not feeling well, and I do hope you feel better. Something like this can harm your immune system. I used to never get sick, but with added stress over the years, I feel sick constantly. It's hard, but you'll get through.
Since the date is nearing, I know how hard it's going to be. But if you need to talk, I'm here.