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my twin. grandsons both passed away during deliver

kyz
kyz
I haven't been online for a long time...I just can't deal with so much gut wrenching sadness. My sons twin Boys died during delivery on Thursday night and I can't eat I can't sleep. I just feel so helpless!! I had a good life. Until a car accident n brain injury in 2012.so long story short everything bad that can happen 2 a person has happened... I don't care right now about me n the woe is me attitude but when my son came in 2 tell me the devistating news...omg I honestly felt like I died n the details r tragic!! So here I am.. I just feel so alone. Its not fair. My son is 21 n he has lost everyone except me. The twins made life worth living! I'm sorry I'm rambling but we REALLY NEED PRAYERS!!! I don't know what else I can do. Please. I'm begging. Please pray for my son Damien. I love him so much n he doesn't deserve this devistation! I thank you from the bottom of my heart n soul! Samantha
antaresmom
antaresmom
Prayers and Hugs being sent to you and the whole family, so extremely sorry to hear of your tragic news.
Veronica77
Veronica77
I am so sorry - will be praying. ((Hug))
vader
vader
my name is vader.I am 68 years old and old enough to be your grandmother.I will be praying for the both of you in my church tomorow and I wish you my condolsences and hugs sent to you as i read about your news.I will be pray for you.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
Huge hug for you and a blessing....I am so very sorry for you and your family...xo
Community LeaderThePepperMan
ThePepperMan
Children are not supposed to die that young, it is not fair at all.

Huge prayers for you and your family.

At times like this it is important (IMHO) that family stays together. Avoid the cliches about, well just avoid them. God never said our lives would be easier with him, just that they would be better when we let his love in.

Huge hugs for all of you
andrealambert
andrealambert
Prayers and blessings to you. I'm so sorry that happened. How awful.
bestfiver
bestfiver
You certainly have every reason to feel the way you do, but try to turn to your faith and let the love of God be your strength. We don't understand why these awful things happen, and it's not fair, but know that you have prayers and support from many friends. Susan.
Scott46
Scott46
I don't even know what to say. I never had lids so can't really know the pain of losing them. But I will pray for you and your son. God bless.

Scott
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