On Friday it will be three weeks since I lost my Brad.I have learned that Brad was having a affair with another woman.So far.she hasnt contacted me at all.She hasnt even called.Could it be that she doesnt know? Why do I want to meet her? I want to see my competition..but this is what I am prepared to say...Other Woman---Brad is dead.he committed suicide.He was having a secret life and this is something that I never knew about.But can you tell me why did he take you to Red Lobster on your birthday when the rest of the year he never spent money on me? I am hearing impaired.It is not my fault.I lost my hearing because of a accident that was caused by a drunk driver.But I am not bad because i am doing things that others dont.I try to be interesting as possible.I watch a great deal of news shows.I also read 2 books a week and I try not to spend a lot of money because i cant afford it...I see that you get your hair done every week...why? What gives you the right to take money from a man who is involved in a relationship? And let me ask you this...for every story that Brad told you...how come you didnt take the time to find out if it was true or not? Brad had a tendency to exaggerate and this is a childish tendency.He wanted to be the center of attention and he didnt care who get hurt.He was always doing this.Brad never liked to talk and when I did...he told me to shut up...Excuse me! Who are you? Are you so special that matters of the house that are serious dont deserve extra attention? In seattle...the men are very,very immature.When something arises in a relationship here...the men here go to pot literally.They do not confrond the problem.They go to all of these happy hours.They begin to drink heavily.Some of them have affairs with these women on line and I know that Brad had a affair with you.Brad felt that the problems of the house were my doing and he wouldnt even discuss mine,but Brads problems were his doing.Every time something went on in his life...he would drink.And drinking was his way to confront the situation.DOnt you see that by telling people that they dont need something or someone you are contributing to the demise? Who are you telling Brad that he dont need AA? I didnt know that you were an expert.What gives you the right? And when a slob like you and you are a slob because I dont think of a operator like you doing the stuff you say on the phone is work...contributes to this...you are guilty.And do me a favor...GET A JOB....YOUR CHAT LINE STINKS AND IT MAY GET SHUT DOWN AND i HOPE IT DOES...And anyone who leads a weak man like Brad on...only contributes to the violence in the house and my bruises are healing...my late grandmother said of "loose woman can break up any home." And she was right.You have done this.When was the last time that you read a book or a magazine? When was the last time you gave clothes to the Salvation Army? When was the last time you cried about child abuse? When was it? I give away some of my clothes almost every week.I read 2 books a week.And I give away some clothes to the needy you see there are people in the world who are worst off then you..but these people dont take a horrible job to take money from these men who are at their lowest hours.And that is the difference between me and you...I am a person who was homeless and such.I am different then you because I have got a mind and a consiencen and i would never lead another person like you have.I hope that you can live with yourself and you are probably thinking of ways to destroy the next man.Go jump in a lake and I hope that you do...vader.