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vader 03/27/2009

My last columnn really ranted.but i am still upset about it all.But I want to tell everyone what has happened.10 years have past.One of the so called heroes of Columbine...is now in jail.The charge is burgarly.One teacher left the system.One little kid never recovered..He ended his life.One of the boys who was at Columbine died in Irag.He was given a heros funeral..But the biggest tragedy is Dylans parents.They havent talked to the press.They havent had a press conference.Why are these parents silent? Why are they refusing to acknowledgement? There sons just needed help..Where is all this help? Cant teenagers live a normal life without this sports and cheerleading nonsense to compete? Now let me tell everyone the results of a poll..it was taken by teenagers 12-15..in the New York Metropolitan area...They asked the kids who there heroes are..And guess what? Guess who Number one..is? The Number one hero is CHARLES MANSON...CHARLES MANSON IS CONSIDERED A HERO...WHY IS THIS MADMAN EVEN ALLOWED TO SPEAK/ CHARLIE COULD HAVE GOTTEN HELP..HE CREATED HIS OWN DESTRUCTION..Number two is Tony Parker..Can anyone tell me who he is? Is mr.Parker the lastest rap star? I dont know who he is? What has he done? And number three---is The Pope.Pope Benedict is considered a hero..so two out of three..aint bad..I suppose..and rember this...Columbine changed a great many people but people dont realize it takes at least 5 years to really recover..and I will add another sad note...one of the mothers left Littleton and a cheerleader was seriously injured in a car accident..still aint noone want to help the victims..cant they say they were wrong about Erik And Dylan? Cant people say that we should have done more? And I am just so happy again because I have beaten mental illness..I will live again..and today all of the seniors are going to the zoo..I have always liked hippos..but hippos can be nasty...
once again..lets try to reach and help each other and I am going to surprize Brad.I am not spending a great deal of time..so ladies...why not have a "date night " with your one and only?
that is what I have been planning.Meow from little tooey and Kramer..Kramer is a stinky.

deleted_user 03/27/2009

I think the reason the parents have been silence is because they are being sued by one of the parents for neglect. Everything they say can be used against them.

vader 03/27/2009

Thanks for your reply.Still the 10th anniversary is looming.You know how that certain people want to keep it alive for their glory.But lets try and help the victims of teenage depression.We must learn the signs and help more kids.In 1962...NO HELP WAS AVAILABLE AND IT TOOK ME FROM 1962 TO NOW...TO FIND THE rIGHT HELP AND i AM GLAD I AM ALMOST nORMAL.

vader 03/27/2009

Thanks.I am surprized that I got a reply so quick.But instead of focusing upon Columbine-lets focus on recognizing the signs of teenage depression so that these kids wont have to resort to violence and they can live.Vader and the cats..Tooey was across the street.Do you know that the new neighbors have been feeding her? So inside she stays..she is visiting almost everyone here.what a stinky!

deleted_user 03/27/2009

I'm pretty sure Tony Parker is a basketball player. I understand your views, but I do not know if it is necessarily right to target athletes. It's not always the "jocks" and "preps" that ruin everything. Actually, I've known "preps" and "jocks" who fought depression. Some schools focus on the athletic departments more than they should, and that's a pride thing, but this isn't always the case.

vader 03/28/2009

to all who replied. i am so sorry if anyone does think that I have targeted athletes..but in my day..an athlete was like god and they couldnt do no wrong.The teachers in my school didnt like some of them..but what could they do? The athletes were the first peer group.Then we had the Rah-rahs.The Rah-Rahs were the cheerleaders.They were also the most
popular and some of them have just been so unable to duplicate what they had in my class.Noone seems to know why.But some people my professor said reach various peaks.And he comments on me how I have recovered from this illness.Another group was the bopers.They were leather jackets and they were the bad boys.They drove a thunderbird and they had money...I know.in 1965...one of them who was in my homeroom took us for a ride in his new car.It was awesome! 1965 is only a memory now but i have got happy memories.My reunion will be in two years and I will see Jean again.We werent friends in high school..but she has changed and Jean is now a warm wonderful person and she is also a great wife and mothere and she has overcome so much and i will never forget her.

deleted_user 03/29/2009

The killers at Columbine and also Virginia Tech were all on anti-depressants. BEWARE of these suicidal/homicidal drugs. I have something you need to read. The producers of PRESCRIPTION: SUICIDE? (a documentary) have a list of the high profile homicides and not so high profile that will cause you to wonder about the snake oils being pushed by the big drug companies. These mind altering drugs are scary. My daughter nearly went out of her mind coming off of Cymbalta. I fear for those who are unaware of what these drugs can do. Please google the documentary name above. I hope you find peace.

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