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kittycat72d 05/09/2013

I have to bad days this month. Mother's day and my moms birthday. the 12th and the 16th. It is 2 years since my moms passing and it still has not gotten any easier but holidays and birthdays are the worst. I am going to try to do something special to celebrate her birthday like make a collage of pics of something. It is so hard though.

deleted_user 05/09/2013

This will be my first Mother's Day without my mom who passed last August. And it is just horrible. I am a mom myself and I feel there is no way I will be able to enjoy that day. Watching all the Mother's day commercials this year puts me in tears. I think we are going to the beach (which she loved) and ppread flowers in the water or something. Noone can ever love you like your mom when that is gone life can never be the same. I hope you find peace in some way this Sunday and on her birthday.

deleted_user 05/09/2013

i lost my mom in 2005. The next year (2006) was the hardest around Mother's Day for me. I was in Wal Mart looking at cards and seen one that had an angel on the front and I totally lost it in the card section because I could not stop crying because I missed my mom so much that it still hurts.

kittycat72d 05/12/2013

happy mothers day mom I miss you and I love you so much :)

MiaFelina 05/12/2013

I'm sending you a warm hug....... I think you have a great idea with making that collage. Remember you're Mom is always with you, no matter what. My Mom passed in 2005, and boy do I wish she were here with me now ( my husband just passed on April 2nd) I know she would wrap me in her love. We just have to know that they're with us in spirit. I agree with lorid92101 that nobody can love you like your Mother but be thankful we even got to know that love and the power of it. Some people lose their Mom's at a young age or never even know their Mom's.......imagine the ache in their hearts?

MsBlank1 05/13/2013

I haven't lost my mom yet, but my brother who passed away 37 years ago shared a birthday with Mother's Day this year. Mom and I went to the cemetery (mom hasn't been there for several years as she moved far away for years and recently moved back to be with me).
Some tears fell as the memories flooded our hearts. My hearts go out to all of you becuz I have no idea how I will make it without my mom when the time comes for her to go :(
May all of you be comforted by your mom's undying love for you and tho her body is gone....her spirit lives on through you (((((((((Hugs)))))))))

kittycat72d 05/16/2013

today would of been my moms 66th birthday. I went to the cemetery and put a dozen different color roses they were her fav. I cried a lot but I got to talk to her up close and personal today. I felt a little better about that. It was pouring rain all the way to the cemetery and when we got there the sun came out shining bright like it was a sign my mom knew I was there or something it was kind of cool. Happy birthday again mom I love you and I miss you so much :)

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