I haven't been through this terrible ordeal that you have had to deal with. I am so sorry that this happened to you. I am so sorry for your beautiful little daughter. It sounds like you really do need some help. Can you talk to your GP about it? He or she might have some ideas about where to go so assistance. I wish I could help. Hugs to you.

I lost a son at 5 months. It was an awful ordeal but I focused on my son that was 2 at the time. I lost him in July at age 28. It's the most awful thing you can imagine. Try to focus on the precious children you still have and remember no one is promised tomorrow (no matter what age)

There is a discussion post what is normal after the loss of your child and it's by prayersplease on daily strength. please read it. it's very powerful and i hope that it may help you with the heartache your feeling. all the wishes in the world go to you

Talk to others about it. I had no one to talk to in my home town and turned to the Net.
I found it very helpful and eventually found a buddy to talk to. We helped each other and I know my new friend was a God send...
Also, prayer worked for me and it got me through the day.
I hope and pray that God will send the right person to comfort you and help you through...

Prayers,

Tim (Jenae's Dad)
http://jenae.gallegos.home.att.net

I too have lost a child. My son Paxton Dean was born still at 7 months into my pregnancy. I haven't fully dealt with the loss. I still am sad but I have two small children I have to take care of. I don't know what I'd do without them. It will be two years on September 10th. I'm not looking forward to that day at all. I have my daughter who was born on New Year's Day and she is my rainbow baby. I was so scared throughout my whole pregnancy with her. I want to have more children but I can't stand to lose another baby. I will say that the pain hasn't ever gone away for me and that it is still very real. I miss him like crazy. I think of who he would've been. What my 4 year old would've thought about his baby brother. He doesn't understand that his mommy didn't get to bring the baby home. Now he says he doesn't remember his brother. He's so young so I understand that. I just wish my baby was here.

November I am so very sorry for your loss huge hug of comfort.... This post is nine years old... Perhaps if you started a new post more people would see it
I'm hugging you....xo

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