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My nephew went to heaven on Aug 30,2006.Since his accident i have come to realize i don't like any of my friends.There all just drinking buddies.I thought they were true friends and i was wrong.None off them will realize the hell i have been through.They say they do,but stayed away for months.Now they all call to see whats going on.I was always the party planner.Well those days are over!I say good luck.I can't imagine a party without Bobby!So should i let them back in or tell them to hit the high road.
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You said it in your first two sentences. Drnking buddies..True friends would be there for you just to listen or do something nice to make you feel better. I would still keep in touch to see how they react and if they still keep doing the same thing I would let go of their friendships. You never know you may find some true friends here.
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First off, so sorry for your loss. I have a 6 year old nephew who I can't imagine life without. I am to familiar with trying to figure out "friends". When my boyfriend died, all our friends were there while he was in the hositpal and for about the next week. They were great. Then I decided that I had to get out of this town. I was gone for a month and only one friend cared enough to call and surprisely he was one that i didn't think would call. Then I moved back down and he was the only one that would call me, he was the one that got me out of the house. He's now my best friend. and all those other friends, I don't talk to. I tried and tried to get everyone to stay together and nothing. They were his best friends and I thought that i was also close enough to them that we could stay friends, but it just makes me feel like they were only my friend becuase i was dating their best friend. friends that cant be their for you when you are at your darkest days, then i say screw them. for the most part. always remember the fun you had and made have more fun with them, but i defiantly wouldnt keep them as your true or close friends.
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First off, so sorry for your loss. I have a 6 year old nephew who I can't imagine life without. I am to familiar with trying to figure out "friends". When my boyfriend died, all our friends were there while he was in the hositpal and for about the next week. They were great. Then I decided that I had to get out of this town. I was gone for a month and only one friend cared enough to call and surprisely he was one that i didn't think would call. Then I moved back down and he was the only one that would call me, he was the one that got me out of the house. He's now my best friend. and all those other friends, I don't talk to. I tried and tried to get everyone to stay together and nothing. They were his best friends and I thought that i was also close enough to them that we could stay friends, but it just makes me feel like they were only my friend becuase i was dating their best friend. friends that cant be their for you when you are at your darkest days, then i say screw them. for the most part. always remember the fun you had and made have more fun with them, but i defiantly wouldnt keep them as your true or close friends.
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