Yeah...totally. I don't understand why good things don't happen to good people..I have seen some real evil people in my life....but most of them have near perfect lives - no struggles, a lot of money, stable families...

My mom struggled all her life...first lost her parents at a young age and bringing up her brother and then raising me with limited resources....I'd say her life was 70% struggle and 30% peace...

She passed away at 59, right after she retired and hopeful of finally taking that long vacation she was planning and saving money for.

Where is the justice? Who decides which people need to go? I loved my mom more than anything...but God took her away from me...I don't find any fairness to that...and I know it sounds selfish...

You could say right now it's more of "hate" than "love"....but I'm getting there...

Yes, I agree with you good people suffer and WHY, we don't know but all I can say is life on earth is suffering here, some good times but it always seems mostly bad times. We need to keep our faith in GOD, HE knows whats right for us in order to come to the ultimate when its our time to pass on and be with HIM. Then and only then, we'll know WHY but, for now, we just need to keep our faith. Talk to GOD as if HE was right there tell HIM how you feel, HE will answer you, ask HIM to help you overcome these feelings your going through, HE will and it will be a very strong sign you'll know it came from HIM and You'll NEVER EVER forget it, it will be with you forever. tc

Bless you, ladies. Thanks!

Oh, I have been talking to God, chi, sometimes without much liking, and He doesn't say anything, I get no emotion from the Divine One whatsoever, just stares at me from across the black void. What usually ends up happening is I simply submit to Him, and fall asleep, take a nap. Then I feel better lol.

God trying to tell me something? That he just wanted to embrace me, have me "hang out" with him for awhile (in peaceful slumber)? If so, it works.

Why bad things happen to good people: I so feel ya, and too don't know.

Sometimes I think it's simply cosmic logic; some are supposed to enjoy this Earth, and perhaps suffer in eternity for their greed and lust, others are meant to suffer here so they can enjoy spiritual riches in eternity. That's the only way I can reason it so it makes sense. It's an "investment" of spirit.

Or maybe it's just random, dumb luck, or lack thereof. Chaos. God puts the universe in motion, free will, and then shit just sticks, or doesn't stick, where it may.