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When ever my Mom pops up in my dreams she's slow, grey, haunting, out of place. What do I need to do to get her to look alive or stop popping in? Any ideas? I was with her when she took her last breath, maybe I just can't shake that image. Maybe I need more nice pictures of her set around. On the day to day front, for any who know me, I am getting better. Not as many crying jags. I just remember we had an agreement from years ago that when she passed she had to come say hi every once in a while. Then after my first dream where she was standing there I hoped she didn't come and see me, better remembering her alive. Ghost dream Mom scares me. I did noticed she could move a little more freely in the last one, maybe she will continue to.
Do take out some more pictures of your mother or go through them one day. It might make you cry, but those good, healthy images of her will bring that picture to the front of your mind. Maybe your next dream will feel more like a reunion and less like a nightmare.
I put photos of my Dad when I was a kid on my dresser, and sometimes I look at them before I go to bed or when I wake up from the bad dreams.