Soon after my mother passed away I dreamt about her a lot. I even woke up one morning and told my fiance that it was okay we didn't have to worry about money for my wedding dress because my mother said she'd pay for it. After having dreams with her in them for a few months, I didn't have any for a few weeks and I was really upset about it one night. That night, I had a dream with her in it and she gave me the okay sign.

I think dreams ....good or bad .... is the mind trying to heal itself by going through fake situations to process daily events.
Tragic events are harder to heal.
I wish I could dream of my son more often.
I hope that you are ok now.
People here do care....I care.
Be well and best wishes, Cedar

I am sure we all wish our friends and loved ones to have pain free lives and regret when they suffer and then die.
I've just lost three friends suddenly and my mind is still struggling to cope with the shock of these lost lovely friends.
We all need lots of time to heal from our grief and it is a painful process.
I do understand how you are feeling . sometimes dreams help and other times they scare the heck out of me.
I've had nightmares about cutting my wrists and stuff like that since loosing my friends and that is creepy. Doesnt help the healing much as I know my friends would not wish me to do such horrid things to myself while grieving for them.
Prayer would work to stop disturbing dreams I think but i keep thinking if I tell people about it they will say I am crazy. I tend to hide my emotions and fear and it makes it harder for anyone to help.
I am told if you try real hard you can change your dreams to a more positive thought and stop the fear attacking. You could try this and see if it works.
susan