Bereavement Support Group
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I am really starting to feel the ups and downs again. I miss my friend that was murdered. There is no one here to share that with. No one knew her out here. No one knew who she was as a person, as a mom as a friend or a wife. So no one really knows how much she really meant to me. I keep seeing her in everything and hearing her in every conversation. But no one would really understand that. At the same time, I want to be happy. I know she wants me to be happy. I just can't get over the loneliness of not having her here.
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I understand how you feel. I lost my dad almost 7 months ago. Some days I am determined and I run errands like crazy and clean my house and play with my kids....and some days I just don't understand how life can go on without my dad, and I just sit on the couch and do nothing. Some days are half good and half bad. Most of the time I don't understand how I'm going to go on my entire life without my dad.
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I am really sorry for the loss of yuor frined it hard to not have anyone that knew her tohelp you grief. I loss my hubby 5 weeks ago and I know the pain I sorry that not only you and I have to go thru this pain but also so many other in the group That what we here for tohelp each other I hope that yuo do find the help hopeand support yuo need here write me any time if I can help huggskathyjo
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Murder is such a horrible thing. My son was murdered 3 years ago. It leaves one feeling so lost. I've spent so much time trying to understand it all. My son lived in another state and most of his friends are there. I communicate with them on the computer for the most part, but for most of them life goes on. Just something we have to learn to live with I guess, else join some groups fighting to stop the violence. It does feel good to do something.
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I know all about the ups and downs and it stinks. I hate it. The thing is you knew your friend and that does matter. Anytime you lose something it hurts. You're never going to forget her but you will make new friends in time. Keep praying, give yourself time to heal, keep talking when you need to and you will get thur this.
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I am sorry for the loss of your friend. I do understand about losing someone to murder. My daughter was murdered in June of 2006. You know, when they die of a disease, you can tell yourself that they knew it was coming and lived til they died. When someone is murdered they leave so many things undone. Someone has to go in and complete those things they thought they would be around to handle. You find yourself thinking every phone call is from them. I used to believe I heard my daughters footsteps coming up the walk. Just let yourself feel what you need to. Although we didn't know her, we lost people that nobody else knew too.
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