I think this fits here, my birthday is a month away yet, although I am already I am dreading it. When my mother was dying from cancer she was moved to a hospice, for which I am grateful they were very good and caring. The only thing is she was moved on my birthday 27th January, usually we go away for it, but, this year we just cant afford it. And what makes it worse its on a weekend, saturday I think. We wont go out for a meal, partly due to my disabled daughter isnt into eating she is 22 years old and the other reason we cant afford it. We wont be able to go for a show, in the UK its generally cold in January which means its not exactly condusive for going out for the day.
Already I am dreading it as I said. My mum didnt actually die until April, but we were told that she would be dead in a week when they moved her into hospice. Also my dad's birthday is on Christmas Eve, he died of heart issues, but I seem to cope with that better as we are busy.
I dont work as such I am my daughters carer 24 hours a day, my husband doesnt work for other reasons, so we are all stuck together.
I have few friends from being stuck inside so much.
I'd love some advice as to how to cope.
I have a friend who is going through a terrible situation with her ex. I don't know how to help her and it is becoming extremely taxing on me. I think she might be getting blackmailed into a sick criminal organizatioN. I don't feel safe to help her right now because I have heard her true story and it seems like she is in too deep. I could be wrong but it feels like law enforcement is not doing...
hi im new to this, im not sure if its depression or just sadness but i cry at night when trying to sleep sometimes i cant sleep because i feel like ill somehow die in my sleep and i constantly think about how shit my life is and how it would be better off if i wasnt here to be a problem to my family im struggling getting a good job and when i feel like i can get a good job i lack the motivation...