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do the dead see the living by vader

vader
vader
i asked the minister a question and he could not tell me an answer.But i am wondering do the dead see the living and how do you know it? Brad has been dead for 5 years now and I have felt his presence by me.I see the doors being opened without my effort and my cat looking at a space and I do not know what she sees.Can the dead contact the living? Has it been done? I went to a medium and she told me that Brad was standing byside me and I could not see him at all.I could not feel him.Brad and I were having very serious problems.All couples have problems but I miss him and I have got no one to talk to since my last friend turned out to be a real pig.I told her something and what does she do...she went on Facebook and told the entire world about the conversation.! Then she told me that she was sorry..but I am sorry I am burned out.I am trying to regain my life..with friends like these I dont need enemies and there are people whom I havent seen in a awhile and I do not intend to see them anymore.The reason..they do not want to hear about Brad.They have turned up snotty noses at me and I need someone to come to terms with his suicide.I havent found it..This is why I went to the medium.What do you think?
chil234
chil234
First of all u said the truth with friends like that you don't need enemies. It's so sad when ppl can't help each other but if they were in that predicament and you didn't help oh my goodness they would condemn you to the gills but its ok they can do it. I DON'T THINK SO. Your going thru such a bad time, no one really knows what it feels like your emotions. When losses happen like this, its a shock to your system and it feels like NO ONES AROUND to help, that's so wrong. Did you see the new movie that came out "Is Heaven For Real"? some will say, its just a movie but I've had spiritual experiences in my life and this movie actually shows you what happens and what we see when we're gone. YES he sees you, YES he will send you signs but if you don't see the signs its because your so very upset, he can't get thru to you. Take time to talk to him and ask him for a sign, he will send you something strong and you'll know its spiritual from him because spiritual is like glue, you can EVER forget it, it will be with you forever. If you need to talk, send me an email. tc
koolman
koolman
Yes, just like the living can see the dead, in our dreams! I think we "cross paths" in our dreams.
lovehodge
lovehodge
Hi,

I believe my husband is with me and is watching over our daughters as they grow up. We are open to seeing "signs" from him. I respect that everyone doesn't agree with me. But let me just say, my four year old daughter has told me things she has seen and heard from her daddy since he died. I won't deny myself that as being the truth as she wouldn't know how to make these statements up. Someone on another page (widows and widowers) said something that stuck with me. He said they are closer than we think. Again, just my beliefs. As far as "friends", you have only so much energy right now. It is ok not to waste time on people who are not actively bringing you up. Hugs! and if you haven't joined, widows and widowers is a great page too. People post a lot more on that page.
lovehodge
lovehodge
forgot to mention. . . it is ok if you weren't officially married. This group is so welcoming and respects any partnership.
vckmag42
vckmag42
I believe in God and the trinity; The Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit. Jesus came back to talk to his disciples. This is proof that there is living beyond death. I do believe that our loved ones are here in spirit and look out for us. Many times we are looking for a sign but can't see it. It may not be an overwhelming sign but one day you are going to be reminded; they are right here watching us.
vader
vader
i want to thank you for all of your kind replied.This is a hard time for me and I still cannot accept it.Someone told me to accept death.But how can a person do this? I really neededd Brad at that time and I will always love him and need him.We were together for 12 years and we had our differences but we were so happy and I miss that.vader.