Bereavement Support Group

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lilduckie 11/04/2008

Well,
my adopted grandpa is sick and he doesnt have much time to live. Which sucks ass. He has cancer and was doing really well. Then he got phenumonia and was in the hospital. The doctors found a blood clot in his leg and part of it broke off and went to his lungs. They have stopped all chemo. He was moved home last thr. Now hospise is comeing to see him many times a lot. It bums me out. I have had a lot death in my life. I dont deal well at all with it. I become numb and dont cry anymore because I have had so many people die. I just dont know anymore. (sigh)Makes me want to cut myself. But I am trying to resist it.

Scott46 11/04/2008

First of all no cutting. It won't help. I'm so sorry about your grandpa. I lost my Mom to cancer about 3 months ago and it hurts like hell. And when it doesn't hurt I feel like a zombie. You have had multiple losses and its no wonder you are overwhelmed. I suggest you spend time with him while you still can. If he can't talk, he can hear you, even in a coma. So talk to him. Tell him you love him. Tell him everything you want him to know. When he is gone get some counseling. Lean on family if you can. Lean on god if you believe. But no cutting. Hugs. Scott

lilduckie 11/05/2008

Thanks. I am trying to resit cutting. I know wont help in the long run. I am trying to find a good counselor. I will defenatly be talking to him. He can talk. So that is good. Im sorry you lost your mom to cancer. That sucks so much. I could not imagine that. I know God will talk care of him. smiles. HUGS. thanks so much. it helps to talk to someone that knows what is going on.

deleted_user 11/05/2008

I am sorry about this, My aunt passed away in March, and my hubbys mom passed away Halloween both from cancer..we have also had a lot of deaths among us so I completely understand what you are saying..PLEASE NO CUTTING!
It is very hard and tragic to deal with and I agree with you and Scott about looking for a counselor-Maybe you can check into churches-lots of them do counseling, and/or grief support
Wish I could be more help and will keep you in my thought and prayers!~

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