ive been reading tonight about surviving complex grief . ive learned that i need to cut myself some slack .
im angry -- i have every right to be angry .
im sad -- yea , why wouldnt i be ?
im afraid -- yes i am . people are scary and potentially deadly if you cross them .
im lacking motivation -- yes , the things i loved and enjoyed have disappeared or became lost in the fog .
im irritable -- no im not you lying sack of crap .
what im getting at is im tired of feeling bad about myself because im such a mess . many of us have little , in effectual , or no support . if theres only one person in the room and youre getting beat up , its time to maybe cut the crap and give yourself a little hug .
hope this resonates with someone .
Hi,I’m a stay at home mom,ive been married for 7 yrs now, have 3.5 yr old twins.I love my kids it’s like I have no one else but them for me.my husband chooses to work through the year, no weekends nothing, we don’t go out for dining or any trips except india once a year which he accompanies sometimes or I have to go by my self and figure out ways to entertain myself.he never ever helps me...
I haven't been around in a while and just wanted to check in with all of you to say Hi. I have been all over the place as of late. Today is the first day I feel stable. So I am dropping by to wish you all a great week. I will try to stop by more often. Hugs to you all.