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When Brad took his life he has left me almost penniless and i dont know if I will be living at the house much longer.I cant afford it.It is the middle of the month and I am broke.After i paid the rent...I was broke.That money was all I had and I havent eaten in 3 days.My neighbor is going to the food bank Friday and I will have some food.The cats food is almost gone and to make matters worse I hurt my leg.I am using a cane now and I am in constant pain since I fell at the bus stop.Now let me write this column and I dont want to offend people...men and women..but men no matter what kind of
relationship that you are in....always get a will or prenup agreement.A will
protects you.Brad had 2 cars and 1 motorcycle.I wasnt allowed to sell them.
Why because the state of Washington does not recognize common law marriage and I wasnt a domestic partner either.Brads family had to sell the cars to pay for his burial.He was cremated and I have got the ashes and he didnt even put me on his life insurance.He had a savings account.He had 1800 in there.but it went to the family and this should not be.All of Brads family have got money.His sister worked for Boeing and his brother is a renowed drug and alcohol speaker in the state of Washington.They did
give me the money for the motorcycle..but Brad had bill s and bill s galore.I found out that Brad wasnt paying his taxes and he owed the IRS thousands.The IRS TOLD ME THAT I AM NOT RESPONSBILE FOR HIS DEBTS AND TO SEND THEM THE DEATH CERTIFICATE.Brad had a
credit union account and he had a lot of money in it.But if you owe the IRS money...they can seize any account and it is all legal.I havent heard from them.Ladies....please make sure that you have a will or a spoken agreement.Please make sure that is is in writing for I dont want anyone to be like me.I havent eaten in 3 days.The cat food is gone.They are hungry so I gave them tuna and all I have been doing is watching tv and wondering where I am going to live next.I AM BROKE AND BELIEVE MEIIIIIIIIIBEING BROKE AND POOR IS THE PITS AND I DONT HAVE THE MONEY FOR THE BUS TO EVEN SEE MY DOCTOR.THAT RENT TOOK EVERYTHING I HAD AND I DONT HAVE THE MONEY FOR THE NEXT MONTHS RENTS...WHAT AM I GOING TO DO? ALways discuss money.Fun and games can wait.Most seniors now want a good time.I dont want a good time..I want security and money and that is not being greedy.That is being secure for I have got no one to take care and I probably never will.I am single at 62 and the hell Brad put me through I refuse to date or see another man again.As far as I am concerned,all men are just power hungry and controllers and I dont trust them.I like men and I like to date and I like going to dinner and thats the way it is going to be.But
always discuss money.I am broke and almost homeless.
relationship that you are in....always get a will or prenup agreement.A will
protects you.Brad had 2 cars and 1 motorcycle.I wasnt allowed to sell them.
Why because the state of Washington does not recognize common law marriage and I wasnt a domestic partner either.Brads family had to sell the cars to pay for his burial.He was cremated and I have got the ashes and he didnt even put me on his life insurance.He had a savings account.He had 1800 in there.but it went to the family and this should not be.All of Brads family have got money.His sister worked for Boeing and his brother is a renowed drug and alcohol speaker in the state of Washington.They did
give me the money for the motorcycle..but Brad had bill s and bill s galore.I found out that Brad wasnt paying his taxes and he owed the IRS thousands.The IRS TOLD ME THAT I AM NOT RESPONSBILE FOR HIS DEBTS AND TO SEND THEM THE DEATH CERTIFICATE.Brad had a
credit union account and he had a lot of money in it.But if you owe the IRS money...they can seize any account and it is all legal.I havent heard from them.Ladies....please make sure that you have a will or a spoken agreement.Please make sure that is is in writing for I dont want anyone to be like me.I havent eaten in 3 days.The cat food is gone.They are hungry so I gave them tuna and all I have been doing is watching tv and wondering where I am going to live next.I AM BROKE AND BELIEVE MEIIIIIIIIIBEING BROKE AND POOR IS THE PITS AND I DONT HAVE THE MONEY FOR THE BUS TO EVEN SEE MY DOCTOR.THAT RENT TOOK EVERYTHING I HAD AND I DONT HAVE THE MONEY FOR THE NEXT MONTHS RENTS...WHAT AM I GOING TO DO? ALways discuss money.Fun and games can wait.Most seniors now want a good time.I dont want a good time..I want security and money and that is not being greedy.That is being secure for I have got no one to take care and I probably never will.I am single at 62 and the hell Brad put me through I refuse to date or see another man again.As far as I am concerned,all men are just power hungry and controllers and I dont trust them.I like men and I like to date and I like going to dinner and thats the way it is going to be.But
always discuss money.I am broke and almost homeless.
Tom B. aka Ihman
Since you have access to the internet - google social services in your area - and see what you can find. There has to be something that will help you in this situation.
We don't let people die in the streets in this country - you will find something.
I cant imagine how hard that must be, but I will say that I think there are a few things you can do, to provide yourself with some more income. First, you mentioned that you are stuck at home just watching TV, and you are writing on the internet. I will tell you that I live in a 1 bedroom apartment and I know my cable, internet and phone bill is sometimes 80, 90 dollars. Its NOT a necessity. If it comes down to eating food, and having running water, sometimes you have to make a cut.
I get how much you love the cats, but if you cannot give them food, its not fair to them either. Why not see if a friend, or neighbor could take them, for a while, so you can get back on your feet? Go to a an animal shelter, and ask if they know of a place you may be able to get cat food? .. I know the dollar store has a lot of items, that people often dont think of . They have lots of cleaning supplies, food, dry goods, can goods, and animal food.
Just dont give up, and continue to fight.. There is help out there...