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My MawMaw (grandmother) passed away 8/24/12...three days before my bday,anyhow, Am i nuts because i felt her with me all day every day for 5 full days after she passed.from start to finish.i actually have picture proof..i was at her graveside and the sun was setting behind a beatufill tree..So snap snap snap i took 3 pictures of a beatiful oak tree with the sun shinning through it..No big deal right?? Wrong , after i left i was looking at the pics i took and low and behold this Bright Orb/LIGHT surrounded by an even bigger "fog" orb..its in all 3 pictures and i didnt move my hand,but the Light/Orb moved from left to right .. IT WAS NOT A REFLECTION..there was nothing there for anything to reflect off of!! the only reason i even was taking pics is because i live 6 hours away and its not like i can just go hop in the car and go be with her..this was ONE instance of many in those five days! certain songs played on the radio at just the right time i needed them to,the day we buried her there was a HUGE rainbow that evening when there was NO rain...the day i was leaving the cemetary after takin the "light" pics as soon as we turned the corner to drive out, ANOTHER huge rainbow after NO Rain!! theres more but i wont go on and on..so am i nuts?? will sumone that reads alot of books on life after death please tell me wat happins in the first minutes,days ,weeks after passing?? was it possible for her to come to me that fast if shes in heaven??im confused,but ive seen to many signs not to believe its her! PLEASE HELP...oh and also me and her where EXTREMELY close,i was her favorite and she was/is mine :( thanks in advanced..feel free to type as long as you want i would like as much info on this as possible.
First, thank you for sharing your experience and the gifts your Beloved Ones have shared with you to let you know they are around for you. Bless their Spirits.
Personally, I do not feel particularly it is either "crazy or psychic." I do however feel that you might be more aware and sensitive to Spirits and similar energies. And I think that's a pretty wonderful thing as long as it doesn't affect your life negatively, you know what I mean?
The experience of passing over, or transitioning as I prefer to call it, I believe is rather like most everything else when it comes to the human experience unique unto that individual. However, that said, based on some readings I've done and my own belief, I believe there are some metaphysical aspects that run basically similar to most who experience this process.
In the moments just after the physical body has ceased to function, the metaphysical or Spiritual self still has full memory of its experiences in this physical place (that is of course provided the memory in the physical living was not compromised somehow).
For the Spirit, memory works like a powerful map to help find and connect to those Beloved ones yet in this physical plane. Even when they might ascend to Heaven, their memories are still very clear and strong, and their love also clear and strong.
Over time, just the same as in the physical plane, the memories tend to soften and it can take more energy to instill into those memories the same full energy as was there during the early days of the transition.
Some Spirits learn this about energy process relatively quickly after transitioning. Their gifts of messages might be more vivid and dramatic because they may have a rushed sense of running out of time. Eventually Spirit may come to learn though that time, the way we experienced it here in the physical space, is not the same as time in the Spirit space.
I'm going to pause here and ask if anything I've written so far makes any sense?
I am sending prayers for Blessings your way. Bless your heart.
Toni / Aynia ......
Some day the silver cord will break
I shall no longer to this life awake.
A golden cord instead therell be,
The one that binds you to me.
I shall be safe at last
The ship berthed, the storm past.
No more grief no more tears
The space apart will not be years
Brief separation nothing more
When I step at last upon that shore.
All things at last made clear
When I see you again my dear
Let us sit then and feel the sea
Wash over us, cleanse us, we shall be
United once more together and free.
Tears shall belong to a past
Half remembered like a dream
Half forgotten, like rain unseen
No more to sear my soul in pain.
My journey over, I shall be home again.
Barbara Messenger
Some day the silver cord will break
I shall no longer to this life awake.
A golden cord instead therell be,
The one that binds you to me.
I shall be safe at last
The ship berthed, the storm past.
No more grief no more tears
The space apart will not be years
Brief separation nothing more
When I step at last upon that shore.
All things at last made clear
When I see you again my dear
Let us sit then and feel the sea
Wash over us, cleanse us, we shall be
United once more together and free.
Tears shall belong to a past
Half remembered like a dream
Half forgotten, like rain unseen
No more to sear my soul in pain.
My journey over, I shall be home again.
Barbara Messenger
Some day the silver cord will break
I shall no longer to this life awake.
A golden cord instead therell be,
The one that binds you to me.
I shall be safe at last
The ship berthed, the storm past.
No more grief no more tears
The space apart will not be years
Brief separation nothing more
When I step at last upon that shore.
All things at last made clear
When I see you again my dear
Let us sit then and feel the sea
Wash over us, cleanse us, we shall be
United once more together and free.
Tears shall belong to a past
Half remembered like a dream
Half forgotten, like rain unseen
No more to sear my soul in pain.
My journey over, I shall be home again.
Barbara Messenger
Some day the silver cord will break
I shall no longer to this life awake.
A golden cord instead therell be,
The one that binds you to me.
I shall be safe at last
The ship berthed, the storm past.
No more grief no more tears
The space apart will not be years
Brief separation nothing more
When I step at last upon that shore.
All things at last made clear
When I see you again my dear
Let us sit then and feel the sea
Wash over us, cleanse us, we shall be
United once more together and free.
Tears shall belong to a past
Half remembered like a dream
Half forgotten, like rain unseen
No more to sear my soul in pain.
My journey over, I shall be home again.
Barbara Messenger