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Well I haven't been here for awhile I was recently released from a psychiatric ward. You see this January my only child Fluer who was 11. She was epileptic stage 9 so pretty bad. December 26 she had a horrible seizure and when she fell down, she hit her head and it triggered a her moya moya condition. So after being in a coma for 16 days and slowly evolving into a vegetable, so like the same scenario that I dealt with my twin and brother I had to make the hardest decision of my life and had to take my daughter of the tubes.
My life is shattered and my husband(who's not her biological father ) is touring in Afghanastan wasn't there so its been difficult and Im still trying to deal with living day to day.
My life is shattered and my husband(who's not her biological father ) is touring in Afghanastan wasn't there so its been difficult and Im still trying to deal with living day to day.
This is a life changing trauma. It will have far reaching effects and it definitely requires expert, loving counseling from a very gifted grief counselor/psychotherapist (not easy to find but who knows, you might find it the first try). A horrible loss, a dreadful burden, a black burning rock you carry every day: I know. I suggest you look for For Moms Only here on DS. This is a large group of women who have lost children for various reasons and who support one another in this horrific journey on how to survive, how to go on living, what that means.
http://www.dailystrength.org/groups/formomsonly
Introduce yourself, little sister. And expect, as the weeks go by, that you will find yourself wrapped in the arms of women who have been where you are and who are surviving. How? God knows. Without my faith I would have died the day my daughter did. Instead, I told the cop to call an ambulance and I spent three days and three nights in the psych ward (like Jesus in the tomb) and "resurrected", passed through horror with the help of two therapists and one very good psychiatrist, and am now at the (almost) 2-1/2 year mark, surprised to be alive. May God bless you and comfort you.