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My kids father passed away one year ago may of last year when he was here his family never invited us to there family reunion and know his sister would like for me and the kids to come i have not spoke to her in about 6 months and now she is asking us to come i am still having bad feeling about her due to the fact that she had her brother removed off of life support i know i should not be feeling this way but i still do please help
I do know one thing that I think will work for you and for me too... the best thing we can both do for ourselves is to forgive the other person for the things we think they did wrong. This is the best way that we can feel better about ourselves and know that we have done the right thing. We can not control what anyone has done in the past, or what they are going to do in the future.
Whether "the sister" was right or wrong about her decisions is something she will have to live with and answer for, you can only do what is best for yourself and your kids. It sounds like she might be reaching out to you now.
Good luck.
Could you possibly call her with a "rsvp" and tell her that you'd like to come but are feeling anxious about it? If she reaches out to you with understanding, and maybe even an apology, this could be a much needed healing for the entire family.