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So lost

karenstewart
karenstewart
Since April last year I have lost my Mom, my best friend and my husband. I am not sure how to feel anymore. Some days I feel nothing. Other days I cry all day.
magiccarpetrider
magiccarpetrider
Karen, I just read your post and I am so sorry for your terrible losses. Life is not fair. Death doesn't seem fair either :( I'm terribly sorry. I came on here tonight to post simply "I miss my mom." I read your post and had to say I hear you and I am so sorry. Your life has been turned upside down and inside out. Just having my mom out of my life has turned my life completely upside down. Nothing is the same anymore. I miss my mom a lot a lot a lot. It's not enough, but at least I share some of your pain. So sorry, Karen
AnnieEm
AnnieEm
So sorry for your losses...I lost my Mom a year ago June...we were just getting to have a fresh start....We did manage to stay as long as we could with her...but my Dad said she was just lingering because we were there...it was just too much to handle.
I did have some good moments with her the last three years...but still nothing can prepare you for death. No matter what the circumstances are.
I wish I could change things and bring her back sometimes but I know that can't happen. Just makes me sad....
I do feel lost too...Holidays aren't good anymore...and my birthday sucks since she passed that day...I don't feel like celebrating that.
I have tried to go back to the grave but I can't seem to do that yet.
I try and talk to her every day...some days I can others I am so sad still I can't.
Prayers for you sent.
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jenniferalves
jenniferalves
Karen I lost my mom last November and my fianc barely a month ago, I understand your pain. It's true there are days were I can get through a few hours then the pain starts, and there are days where I don't want to get out of bed. I have read in a lot of these posts it does get easier and I at least believe it will. When I have no idea. Today I only want a day with peace. Stay as strong as you can, I'm trying to.