Bereavement Support Group

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maccy 08/15/2007

its been 2 months since my dad died of an overdose and iam still not feeling a thing about it i still think he is here been ringing his phone but he wont answer and everyone is saying he has gone he has gone but he aint i know he aint he is still here i seen him on the train the other day but i was with my sister and she thinks he has gone so i didnt want to upset her by saying ther is my dad

deleted_user 08/15/2007

But if you talk about it with her, or whoever's there at the time you see him, it might clear things up. It must be kind of weird feeling like you're the only one who doesn't believe it. I've been in a similar situation with my best friend since he died. It never quite hits me. I keep thinking it will, but it just bounces off me as if I were made of Teflon. Q? Gone? Dead? Nahh.

deleted_user 08/15/2007

I know it is hard to understand. I lost my dad June 9th of this year. Maybe you should see a therapist about this. Hang in there. God bless.

deleted_user 08/16/2007

I lost my husband 3 months ago. He was identified using dental records. I too feel that he is NOT dead and is out there somewhere and will be back. I keep remembering the saying "There is nothing IMPOSSIBLE" and I feel that it might be a case of mixed identity. Or maybe that is what I am telling myself to deal with it...

deleted_user 08/17/2007

I just lost my daddy June 16th, When I go to visit my momma , I just feel like my daddy is gone fishing and will be back later on. It still don't seem real to me .. BUT I do know in my heart that he is not here, I see a therapist every 2 weeks and she has helped me ALOT!!! MAY GOD BLESS YOU!!

deleted_user 08/17/2007

Its been 9 months since my dad passed.. and I still think i see him driving around town and i called his phone the other day without even thinking.. Its strange when someone who was always there isnt anymore. It willl get better.. My brother and I talk about it alot and It upsets us both but at the same time its nice to know someone is feeling the same way you are.. Hang in there..

deleted_user 08/17/2007

I understand completely. We lost my brother-in-law in a hit and run accident six months ago, and it still feels like he could walk through the front door any minute.

When we go to my inlaws house, there is an eerie feeling in his old bedroom. I tell myself that I am imagining things, but my husband feels the exact same way.

Hang in there. My thoughts are with you.

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