With both your boys having bed wetting troubles it must be frustrating.

It is a difficult problem to overcome if there is no medical issue causing them to wet the bed just have to wait until things improve.

Waiting much longer before putting their diapers on would be worth trying.
If you wait until they are going to bed they can make sure they empty their bladders just before they sleep.

With being diapered two hours before bed they might be using the diaper before they fall asleep.

Patience and reassurance that it is medical problem and it's not their fault they wet the bed helps them as well.

Maybe even them joining the site and talking to others with the same problem could help them as well.

i am 14 and i still pee the bed every night
so i still have wear diapers at night
my mom puts diapers on me
at night
and some times in day time to
because i have day time
accidents some times

Mikezx1214 has a good point. Wait longer before putting there diapers on of a night. I would wait 30 min before bed. Have them go to the bathroom to empty there bladder, then go ahead and diaper them then. Limit there fluid intake about 2 or so hours before bedtime. Being diapered 2 hours before bedtime, they figure since they have on a diaper they just use it, cause they have no choice.

I dont know. My wife likes to put their diapers on early so it is done and out of the way and just in case they go to sleep early (There have been times when they werent protected) but your right . More often than not they are wet before actually going to bed and will need to be changed into a dry diaper.

Another problem with no logic like the drinking one - [see Adult Bedwetting] !
To diaper or not to diaper as Hamlet might have said but didn't get around to.
Do we wet more in the comfort of a diaper; or more when unprotected?
Does a diaper encourage the bladder to relax, without one are we more alert to bladder signals?
I suppose the real answer is "everybody" and every body is different.
A great physician began a lecture: "Of course we know almost nothing about the human body - yet!" It is only the 21st century, with billions ahead in deep time.

I guess everyone’s circumstances are different so from my own experience I agree to diapering them earlier rather than later.

if i not wear diapers are pull ups when sleeping
i will pee the bed

my mom puts diapers on me because i pee the bed

You're not alone, my 11 year old still wets just about every night.

We've tried pull ups like good nites but they leak too much so we have to put the boys in proper diapers and they unable to put them on properly themselves. We also put them on early before bed "Just in case"

Pull-ups are generally less absorbent.
Your sons need some time to learn to put their diapers on properly themselves. .
Try later.
I became able to diaper myself properly when I was around 15.

Yes they do. My 13 year old definitely gets embarrassed about me or his mom having to put his diaper on and change him in the morning. Hes really old for that but he can never get it on right. Hopefully he is able to start waking up dry soon.

It is understandable your 13 year old is embarrassed about being diaper by his parents.

With him not being able to get his diaper on properly by himself maybe trying a little different method of doing it will happen feel less embarrassed.

He could go ahead and apply rash cream on his own before you come in his room and he can place his diaper so his private parts are covered if that is one of the things he is embarrassed about. When you come in to finish putting on his diaper it may feel less awkward for him if he has done what he can do on his own.

Plenty of reassurance that he can't help it that he still wets the bed and letting him do what he can on his own might help reduce the amount of embarrassment he feels.

Having him look at this site may help him as well there are many on here that need help with getting their diaper on properly it may help him to know other kids his age are being diapered by their parents.

We considered that but his Mom doesnt trust him to do it properly so she prefers me or her to do it

Personally from my experience it's a boy thing. Not just myself but most my sons were still using huggies during the occasionally until past age 10. My youngest is still in bedtime diapers and in my case I went back into 5 years ago. From my experience as a guy and a father of 4 boys, diapers are a regular tool to manage our bladder needs. Why do you think they come in such big adult sizes. Was actually reading the other that adult diapers are now selling at twice the rate of those for babies here in the US. If people didn't get all hung during potty training then nobody would think anything either way about someone wearing them. It's better than not wearing them trust me.