Hi
I know it is a tough deal when you can't go on sleepovers or have one, her friends could be very understanding about her bedwetting but she has to decide if she wants to try it.

I use to tell friends I could come over for awhile and make up an excuse that we were doing something early the next day so I couldn't sleep there.
It is wasn't the best thing but I at least got to go for awhile and my parents would let me stay over a little later and then come pick me up.
It wasn't a solution but at least I got to take part for awhile.
maybe one day when she is ready she will want to try have just one friend stay over.
I know it is so hard when you can't take part but I also know how your daughter feels about trying it.
Even when you know it is not your fault and you try your best there is still a lot of embarrassment that is felt because of wetting the bed.
Hopefully she will grow out of it soon and get to take part in sleepovers.

Start and practice with family first. Have her sleepover at a family members house that already knows of her bedwetting. Practice there to perfect the ideas for hiding a diaper under her clothing, then once that's done a few times have her try them at your house first with just a couple of friends. Start with a small group first, then work up to as many as she'd like to have over. Are you or does she need to be diapered by someone else? If so, come up with a reason or excuse for the time she has to leave for a diapering. You can use the excuses of she needs to take some medicine or something along those lines. Use that time away for a moment to get her in a diaper. If you don't use undies at home usually, use a pair on that night to cover over any graphics on the diapers and add an extra layer of hiding. If she can start out first where she's the most comfortable and practice what to do there, then once she builds her confidence, a sleepover shouldn't be a problem.
Hope she can attend one or host one soon! Good luck to all of you!!
Stacy

I would love to talk to you. I am a journalist writing some stories for Huggies.com on bedwetting and sleepovers. Would you email me directly please? Bethany - blkandel@aol.com Thank you very much!

Sleepovers are very important for teens so I always supported the idea when my daughter wanted to have sleepovers.
I also called them out for a moment, diapered them for the night and let them go back.
I first tried it at our home and later on at their friend's place but if it was there I stayed there for longer, put her in her night diaper and then left to pick her up the next morning.

When I was young my mum found a way of meeting & talking to parents of other bedwetters ... and then we their children would be introduced to each other., and it wasn't such an " issue" . I've never been to sure how my mum arranged this .....but she did. ! It meant I grew up knowing I wasn't the only one.
And that helped I'm sure.

As a nightly bedwetter in to my teen years I didn't let that stop me from going to sleepovers, most of us grew up together so they knew about the bedwetting and diapers anyways. I didn't learn how to put my own on until at least 10 years old. At home it wasn't any issue, mom would call me into her room and just diaper me and send me back to the fun. Most of the time I only stayed over at 2 other friends anyways so Away from home mom would drop me off and talk to my friends mom for a few minutes basically to make sure it wasn't a problem and to give them my supplies etc. and when it was time to get ready for bed they would take me into a separate room and and put the diaper on hey it took less than a minute to get it done. I never remember being embarrassed being diapered by my friends moms as I knew them for a long time and was comfortable with them like a second mom. After I learned to handle it myself I just did it on my on but none of my friends ever said a thing or gave me and issue.