I think you will find many men will accept you just as you are. Love conquers all. Lets face it is bedwetting really such a big deal.

hi

I have a overactive bladder. now under control during the day, but I need to wear nappy to bed and it is always wet in the morning.

so I don't mind if I find some one who needs nappy in bed or even is they need nappy 24/7.

if you don't mind me asking how old are you (me 54) and where are you from (me York, UK).

Thank you. xx

Thank you guys for your reply!
Katherin, I am 44 and I have avoided many guys who were attracted to me out of fear that they will find out!

Katherin:

Your 44. Similarly aged men or women don't care. Its a maturity thing. I stopped worrying about being "outed" when I was about 22.

Hi Bedwetter
If you ever come to York, UK please message me and hopefully we can meet up.

Hi
I had bedwetting problems off and on as a child and a teenager then pretty reliably dry for ten years until I broke my neck playing rugby and i started to wet the bed again. Over the years it got worse and worse and a dry night was a rarity so it was back into nappies. I used to think the same thing and so did not have any real girlfriends for a good many years. A few close female friends new about my bedwetting and having to wear nappies and were always very understanding. Then one day I met the girl who would become my wife. That was 20 years ago. I told her the first time I knew this was a serious relationship. Now we have three teenage boys. Over the years, unfortunately, my bladder problems have got much worse and I am now in nappies 24/7. Only a very few really close friends know. I am sure you will find the man of yours dreams and when you do he will love you because you are you........bed wetter and all!

I am sorry to hear that it has been suck a hard struggle for you. Everyone needs someone to help them through difficulties in life.

My wife wets the bed occasionally, but it's not a big deal. It's just pee. Try to create good relationships and just remember there are a lot worse things.

Hi there,
I don't think you should worry about it to much but I know its hard to not worry. I recently had to tell my friend who I went to Rome with that I still happen to wet the bed and that I have to wear diapers during the night. She said I was being silly and she didn't care. Again I don't think you should have to worry wetting the bed and having to wear diapers isn't the worse thing in the world most people don't seem to care.

Thanks for wonderful attitudes, which are changing the world!
Hopefully the trend will continue, led by people like you and your friend.
We should all be able to wash & go & take in stride & get a life!

There are a lot of good men out there who would not be turned off by your incontinence. If a guy really loves you he will be there for you. Many guys are married to wife's who live with bladder problems.

I very much understand your concern. I have been a bedwetter all my life and this condition affected many aspects of my life style and behavior, including personal life. I never even dated a boy, to say nothing about getting married because of the fear that my condition will ruin everything. I know that it is not true but cannot do anything with me, however, from other forums I learned that some people build their personal relationships notwithstanding their bedwetting problems because true loving partner accepts you as you are, even, saying literary, in a wet bed.

My wife doesn't worry about my bedwetting. We still sleep together.

bedwettergirl, alexandra and anyone else - Don't give up hope! There are good people out there! I have a gf who is so supporting of my IC problem and I know there are plenty of others out there who will be as open minded as her. Confidence is sexy :)

There are some wonderful and attractive women out there who wear diapers and rubber pants to bed! I've known a few.........

If I were still single, it would not be a factor for me. :)