Banana Community Group
For people who sometimes feel a bit like a bloody banana! A place for validation, love, hope and warmth, a place for friendship and the sharing of dreams. A place always to feel safe and welcome..also a place for the occassional sprinkling of silliness to lighten the sometimes darkness of our days.
A few years ago I gave up fear. I am of the opinion that you attract what you focus your attention on. Focus on things you fear and they will come to you. Remove the fear and they will pass you by. In the past 4 years I've been engaged in this practice, very little bad has happened to me. I've not been attacked or even harassed, and nothing has been stolen, even with every door and window obviously wide open. Sure, there have been some things happen that I would prefer hadn't - transmission went out on the van, got a job with the company from hell (only lasted 3 months), broke both wrists in a bicycle accident, and am over my head in debt from almost a year and a half of unemployment. But I haven't been sick for more than a day, I've not had bad experiences with any strangers, I've even walked through large crowds of teens that completely blocked the sidewalk and the only comments I've gotten were "Excuse me, sir.", "Good evening.", and once even "Make way!" No fear, no problem.