Back Pain Support Group
Back pain is one of the most common reasons people seek medical care. In fact, about 3 in 4 adults will experience back pain during their lifetime! The term back pain includes pain affecting the neck, midback and low back. Acute back pain may begin suddenly with intense pain but typically lasts fewer than three months. Usually, chronic back pain is persistent, steady, and...
Like everyone in this forum.. i'm really sorry you have to go through this.. I can ramble for days on my own pain.. etc.. but i wanted to answer your question.
For surgery.
1. Bring a toothbrush.
2. bring a laptop (borrow one if you have to). MOST hospitals have free wifi now..
3. Get an account with Netflix, HULU, or HBO on demand or something.. This is the easiest way to entertain and distract yourself..
4. Dont bother bringing a book or puzzles. Honestly post surgery pain is usually pretty distracting and concentrating on something like a book or puzzle or game is hard..
5. TALK TO YOUR SURGEON. make sure they know what the problem is.. where it is.. what is going to be done.. and the results you want to see.. and i mean WHEN you are in the bed lying in front of them before surgery.. i have been through 7 back surgeries and they still havent gotten it right..
6. Be the FIRST surgery of the day if possible.. less time waiting.. the Dr is fresh and only really has YOU on their mind..
7. DONT skimp on the pain meds.. hit the morphine button when you need it.. addiction is NOT caused by proper usage.. it's caused by people who take handfulls of pills when they dont need them.
8. Do ALL of your rehab! it's important.. if you want to gain back what you lost
9. Dont wait! with your nerve encroachment and foot drop the longer you wait for surgery the more chance you have for permanent nerve damage. I waited 1.5 years for my first surgery and then a bone fragment broke off and was pressing on the nerves for another 6 years before i could have it removed. Now i suffer permanent nerve damage and constant pain.
10. FOOD! Hospital food sucks.. have someone bring you take out at least once a day.
11. List of friends and times they are awake.. Typically you sleep 90%of the first day.. and are up most of that night.. so knowing WHO you can call at midnight-2am is good that way you can have someone to talk to if you want..
The day or two after surgery may be foggy.. dont be afraid to ask for help from the nurses.. family.. friends.. you may want to let them know you appreciate them being there.. and sorry if you fall asleep.. the mophine will make you pass out in the blink of an eye.. I remember one second talking to my father.. the next my best friend was there.. a few minutes later it was the middle of the night..
Normally i would say try EVERYTHING before you go to surgery.. but you sound like an extreme case and it sounds like you need it. My best wishes for you and your recovery.