He is 19 yrs old and was diagnosed around 5 yrs. He was an IEP in school. He did graduate highschool. I've trying to get him looking for a job which he does online. I doubt that he has applied for any jobs. When I try to talk to him about it, he gets angry with me and says I'm nagging him.
I did take him to Goodwill Industries' job connections' office and he signed up with them. He is still very sluggish about applying for jobs.
As you can see, talking to him doesn't work well. Maybe it's because I don't know how to talk to him. I know he has anxieties and is afraid to get out there.
Does anybody know what to say to help get him motivated?
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