Asperger Syndrome Support Group
Asperger syndrome - also referred to as Asperger's syndrome, Asperger's, Aspergers or just AS - is one of five neurobiological pervasive developmental disorders (PDD), and is characterized by deficiencies in social and communication skills, normal to above normal intelligence, and standard language development.
AspInTheBrush
I know people malinger, and I can understand it if they do it for money. Because we all need it, and we all like "stuff". Most of all, these people seldom flaunt their alleged illnesses or disorders any more than they have to.
But there are those who do this not for money, but for image. And this I cannot tolerate. It could be anything; Asperger's, Schizophrenia, Bipolar, PTSD, or even Cancer! They daily broadcast to those around them, especially through the internet (these days) how ill they are, how people should feel sorry for them...how COOL it is to be the way they are...
I'm specifically dealing with the recently added memory of someone who is now claiming to have Asperger's. How do I know this person doesn't? A number of things. This person has a penchant (strong tendency really, penchant implies skill, though there's not exactly a scarcity in that department) for lying and telling half truths, but I believe them when they intimate that they "had lots of friends growing up, then at 10, 11, 12, etc, I withdrew and the friends went away". Not autistic at all. Tales about spirit travel, psychic mediumship, inconsistent plot lines in the stories, obvious attention seeking, hyper-sexuality, suicidal and homicidal ideation, fits of rage...
The list goes on really. Honestly, based on those symptoms, I think a more accurate diagnosis would be Bipolar 2 with possible strong psychotic features. True, Aspies may have SOME of those things, but none of the things I just described can't be traced back to mood or psychotic disorders. No defining neurological ones, though this person is now pretending and playing up alleged autistic symptoms.
But the most convincing piece of info is that this person, until I met them and told them I MIGHT have a touch of AS, never brought up the possibility, and this person is supposed to have been way into psychology for a fairly long time. On their site, before I entered the picture, only tales about hearing voices, invisible spirit friends telling them to commit suicide, vast depression, and their shrinks diagnosing them as such.
About half a month after I'd told them that about me, vedi veedi vicci! They've got Asperger's. And they were diagnosed as such. This person moved to NYC very shortly after I broke ties with them, which was shortly after I told them aobut my possible AS, and they're now saying the shrinks in their home-state were the ones who diagnosed them as such.
A definite "AsPoseur" if I've ever seen one. If I weren't stricken with a horrible, unproductive disease called "morality" I'd link you to their site to show you what I mean. Or maybe I'm just afraid I'll get banned if I do...definitely the latter.
But there are those who do this not for money, but for image. And this I cannot tolerate. It could be anything; Asperger's, Schizophrenia, Bipolar, PTSD, or even Cancer! They daily broadcast to those around them, especially through the internet (these days) how ill they are, how people should feel sorry for them...how COOL it is to be the way they are...
I'm specifically dealing with the recently added memory of someone who is now claiming to have Asperger's. How do I know this person doesn't? A number of things. This person has a penchant (strong tendency really, penchant implies skill, though there's not exactly a scarcity in that department) for lying and telling half truths, but I believe them when they intimate that they "had lots of friends growing up, then at 10, 11, 12, etc, I withdrew and the friends went away". Not autistic at all. Tales about spirit travel, psychic mediumship, inconsistent plot lines in the stories, obvious attention seeking, hyper-sexuality, suicidal and homicidal ideation, fits of rage...
The list goes on really. Honestly, based on those symptoms, I think a more accurate diagnosis would be Bipolar 2 with possible strong psychotic features. True, Aspies may have SOME of those things, but none of the things I just described can't be traced back to mood or psychotic disorders. No defining neurological ones, though this person is now pretending and playing up alleged autistic symptoms.
But the most convincing piece of info is that this person, until I met them and told them I MIGHT have a touch of AS, never brought up the possibility, and this person is supposed to have been way into psychology for a fairly long time. On their site, before I entered the picture, only tales about hearing voices, invisible spirit friends telling them to commit suicide, vast depression, and their shrinks diagnosing them as such.
About half a month after I'd told them that about me, vedi veedi vicci! They've got Asperger's. And they were diagnosed as such. This person moved to NYC very shortly after I broke ties with them, which was shortly after I told them aobut my possible AS, and they're now saying the shrinks in their home-state were the ones who diagnosed them as such.
A definite "AsPoseur" if I've ever seen one. If I weren't stricken with a horrible, unproductive disease called "morality" I'd link you to their site to show you what I mean. Or maybe I'm just afraid I'll get banned if I do...definitely the latter.
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Oh, and they literally like to pose for artsy ("art" is used loosely here) pics that depict their aspie nature in which they strike poses, write "aspie" on their forehead...it's sick.
leave it as them being a poseur - that's enough.
and yes, talking about members in a derogatory way, either by name or clear implication , or indeed groups of members will get you a warning, suspension or banning.
I've been here a long time - I've seen people come back from the dead, people who are serial poseurs of one kind or another, attention seekers, wanabees etc etc and those that pose as victims to gain sexual advantage.
It's best to just hit ignore or if you see real abuse, as in a post, PM or hug to report that either directly to DS or via a CL.
I really do get what you are saying but after 5 yrs of being here, 3 as a CL that is my advice.
@ gettingitright: No. If you'd like, I can show you where in a message.
@ acuriousfish: As I told gettingitright, they are not a member. They're somewhere else completely. I'm not saying ALL Bipolar 2's have those symptoms, but it really does fit: the hypomania, the hypersexuality, attention seeking, mystical experiences, delusions, all these things have been reported in bipolar 2. Also, this person DOES have severe outbursts of anger and mood swings, which, as I'm sure you know, are hallmarks of the disorder.
You have a great gif for a pic :)
But PLEASE, just as diagnosed aspies here get annoyed about NT's saying "asp[ies are theis, aspies are that"..please don't do the same with bipolar people.
Bipolar people so not have attention seeking as a symptom or even a characteristic. That is more a Borderline personality thing. But anyway there are many things that look like bipolar even to medical people so lets not say someone is a AS poseur with a bunch of negative characteristics and then say they are likely to be BP2. We just don't know.
Again if you were to turn this around and say they were a BP poseur, list those negative characteristics and conclude they were AS I expect it would offend people here.
thanks.
Ok, I won't. But something tells me if you saw this person you'd be making all sorts of diagnoses whether because they're so good at imitating them, or mysteriously have a little of everything.
I also know BP is is mistaken for AS and vice versa sometimes on account of panic attacks and temper tantrums ( would I be presumptuous in saying those things TEND to be more symptomatic of BP than AS?).
And yes, you would be presumptuous in saying panic attacks and temper tantrums are more common in BP than AS.
Plenty of AS/auties show irritation and anger issues as a reult of frustration with themselves and the world. Irritation can be part of bipolar depression or hypomania but that would be confined to bipolar episodes.
Panic is not part of bipolar disorder but social anxiety is a common issue with people on the autistic spectrum. Also panic can come from break in routine that would often stress people on the autistic spectrum - so that particular symptom is probably a lot more common within the AS population.
Equally there are alot of people with panic and anger issues that are neither AS or Bipolar.
I don't know how anyone competent could mistake bipolar for AS. Bipolar is episodic and the depressive and hypomanic episodes are defined as being outside of normal character. AS is a constant state.
And there are many other differences which you can find by comparing the diagnostics in the DSM.
"Hypomania (literally, "below mania") is a mood state characterized by persistent and pervasive elevated (euphoric) or irritable mood, as well as thoughts and behaviors that are consistent with such a mood state. Many people also experience signature hypersexuality."
You can say Wikipedia is unreliable, but it always contains a grain of truth, and you'll be hard pressed to find a different definition anywhere. "Pervasive" is hardly "episodic".
The pervasiveness refers to the encompassing nature of the state - ie there is a general level of arousal, mental activity, etc.
it does not mean you are permanently hypomanic.
Hypomania is defined after an elevated state that lasts a minimum of 4 days. It usually lasts days, weeks or possibly months.
If you don't believe me, please look at the DSM. Note it says the elevated mood is different from the person's normal state.
A) A distinct period of persistently elevated, expansive or irritable mood, lasting throughout at least 4 days, that is clearly different from the usual nondepressed mood.
B) During the period of mood disturbance, three (or more) of the following symptoms have persisted (four if the mood is only irritable) and have been present to a significant degree:
1) inflated self-esteem or grandiosity
2) decreased need for sleep (e.g., feels rested after only 3 hours of sleep)
3) more talkative than usual or pressure to keep talking
4) flight of ideas or subjective experience that thoughts are racing
5) distractibility (i.e., attention too easily drawn to unimportant or irrelevant external stimuli)
6) increase in goal-directed activity (at work, at school, or sexually) or psychomotor agitation
7) excessive involvement in pleasurable activities that have a high potential for painful consequences (e.g., engaging in unrestrained buying sprees, sexual indiscretions, or foolish business investments)
C) The episode is associated with an unequivocal change in functioning that is uncharacteristic of the person when not symptomatic.
D) The disturbance in mood and the change in functioning are observable by others.
E) The mood disturbance not severe enough to cause marked impairment in social or occupational functioning, or to necessitate hospitalization, and there are no psychotic features.
F) The symptoms are not due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, a medication or other treatment) or a general medical condition (e.g., hyperthyroidism)
Note: Hypomanic-like episodes that are clearly caused by somatic antidepressant treatment (e.g., medication, electroconvulsive therapy, light therapy) should not count toward a diagnosis of Bipolar II disorder.
I'd add that I suffer from Bipolar 2 disorder and have experienced hypomania.
I also have aspie traits, two step sons on the spectrum and can assure you, once again, that AS and BP2 cannot be easily confused.
Perhaps we can draw this to a close now.