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kansasgirl1970
kansasgirl1970
For those that have read my last few journals, you know I have been struggling of late. Three and half months past dday and I just seem down and uncertain. I noticed this morning over on the infidelity board that there is a whole lot of divorce talk.
Don't get me wrong, I know we have a mix here of how everyone is healing and dealing, and I value all the friendships I have formed here and all the dif opinions and suggestions . But over there, right now, seems like everyone is pushing divorce and advising others to run and jump ship etc.
And maybe its always like that and I'm just super sensitive lately, idk , maybe I didn't pay that much attention to it before.
deleted_user
deleted_user
At the end of the day, and please no one take this personally, it doesn't matter what is ebbing and flowing on the boards. We all need to make decisions which our best for us as individuals in our own specific situations. Free advice is exactly that. We all need to listen to our hearts, follow our gut instincts and avoid reacting to anyone piece or source of advice. DS is a support/advice buffet; I take some, I leave some because I've had enough of that already. Some I will never partake in at all! Eventually, I hope to have learned enough to have something useful to offer but for now, most of the time I can only take...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think that when things like that happen it is good that there are opinions foe and against. By reading different and opinions we learn to see 'where we are standing" and listen to our own souls. Since I made up my mind I have been careful to look at the board, because as hairymick said, it triggers really deep. Sometimes those painful feelings have a time and place, but other times they can get you in a really deep waters and spoil your day..