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Worst nightmare

mommy33333
mommy33333

I have been struggling with post partum anxiety ever since my daughter was born in August:  very vivid intrusive images of horrible things happening to my family, especially my children.  Last month one of my horrible images came true when I discovered that a neighbor boy has been repeatedly sexually abusing my 3 year old daughter with her 6 year old brother present.  I’m struggling with my anxiety now, because the most horrifying thing I could imagine actually came true.  I used to comfort myself by reminding myself that the horrible images were irrational and impossible, but I can’t anymore.  What do you do when your worst worry comes true???

rcurtis1010
rcurtis1010
First off id like to tell you I will keep you in my prayers.. No mother should ever have to go through that.. Second off I would say you and your daughter should go to therapy sessions together.. Even with your son as you are all effected in this horrible situation.. Someone who is trained to deal with traumatic events that happen to little children would greatly help. Second off don't forget about yourself. Reach out for professional help. With something that awful happening that's the start of the healing process.
mommy33333
mommy33333
Thank you so much for your prayers. My children are in therapy and I have found a therapist. I am having a hard time being present for my kids because my own anxiety is getting in the way. I am hoping that they know I love them and feel that I am available- I try to hide my fear.
arfie
arfie
Gentle empathy, Mommy. I'm a grandmother now and parenting remains an on-going challenge to face my worst worries. It appears you never get to retire from the mommy job. Some days that's a blessing. . . I think. . . I pray.

It sounds to me like you are doing what needs to be done to handle the situation. *Just* keep on stepping and be patient with the process.

Gentle support while you sort. Share freely. Share often. We can definitely handle the gory details here better than your little ones.
mommy33333
mommy33333
Thank you. ❤️
SheilaPunk
SheilaPunk
I am so sorry.
Of course you feel anxious! Your child was hurt. Please see your therapist-it will help you get that anxiety manageable.
sunandbutterflies
sunandbutterflies
I am so glad that you and your children are seeking professional help in a therapist. Unfortunately, our world can be a dark place. I am so glad for the hope that we have, and I pray that you and your family would find healing.
mommy33333
mommy33333
Thank you all so much.
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