It is the relationship with yourslef that you need to improve first and you will see you attract others. Your self worth does not think you deserve the attention.

Work on yourself and you will see you deserve her and cheerish and protect the relationship. Do not sabotage it out of anxiety or fear.

Go along and fool yourself for awhile and think you are deserving.

good luck

your question lay's with in your answer,actions & words but seems tho you might be a lil insecure ..however ? why is it your affraid to ask her how she realy feels ect: are you affraid of rejection of the wrong words? she might use? or not the words you want to hear?
sometimes when your emotions roll play a Apart its not hard to ask... if all lines of Communication are open everyday Via Phone or texting.. and if you feel more comfortable asking in that form ask her how she feel's ..or by telling her how you feel although like my Past experiances some arnt ready they run , maybe she's not read for a commentment
be open and honest with yourself 1st before you are with her,
and as far as posting her because it is not off the subject.. you have that fear
let her know how you feel when she's not Physicaly there , it might make her feel wanted more it might chase her off .. only she knows i can related to the male Ego as well as opening your heart and emotions , but in most cases girls love that in a male ( as i have learned ) like Billy Joel song " YOU GOT TO TELL HER ABOUT IT" exactly how you feel" let us know after you do ! i believe she's waiting to hear from you good luck my friend

Have you ever heard of The Secret? It makes a lot of sense. Basically, that which we believe, will ultimately come to be. I know it's hard..because you don't want to fool yourself and be let down. However, think about it. She may like you...but if you don't have the confidence, she will feel that and then her feelings will change. YOu will act differently, etc because of the way you are thinking. If it's meant to be, it will be. Try to relax (Again, easier said than done). I have been there.

Thanks everyone, I know these feelings will pass in a couple days. I went through this once when she initially went back to school for the start of the spring semester but even though I've been there it's just hard to keep that in mind. Keep thinking positive and positive things will come, I have heard of the secret by the way, very powerful stuff once again easier said than done.


Thank You

Open and honest communication is always a best starter. Find a time and place to meet in person and talk about your feelings and hers. The feelings you have for her sound pretty strong. If she didn't like hanging out with you she wouldn't. TRY not to be so hard on yourself.

You are deserving of good things and people in your life while anxiety, stress, fear and panic tend to lead us to believe differently especially when anxiety is high as it may be in your situation with this girl you like.

Consider talking to a trusted friend or a student counselor on your campus perhaps? Don't deny your anxiety but don't deny dating a girl you like when a chat with her could calm your heart,

Peace friend.