Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...
My boyfriend is so mean to me all the time. I don't know what to do he cusses at me and never makes me feel good. I don't know if it is because he is from New Jersey or just says he loves me and doesn't. He doesn't know how to help me when I have a panic attack. He yells at me and tells me to get over it. He gets mad and says I'm not dealing with you right now and goes to sleep. I am sick of it. I want to move out but don't know where. I just want to be with someone who will be nice to me
Gather up any self respect and love you may have left for YOURSELF and leave.
I left my ex 10 years ago with $69 to my name (he was abusive) and lived in my car for awhile. I ate from the dollar store and worked my butt off (anxiety and all). I have concentrated on myself (worked with a counselor.....an excellent one who let me pay what I could....and sometimes for free....there are good ones that still care).
I was scared as hell....but it beat being beat up and treated horrible. Learn to love and take care of yourself first before getting involved with another person. Become your own hero my dear.....it will strengthen your soul to handle whatever comes your way. Trust me.....I have been through hell and back several times. Through it all.....nobody came to my rescue.....I had to do it myself and I am glad and better for it.
If you do nothing.....then nothing will change. You can not change ANYONE but yourself. Don't wait around for this man to change.....he is not capable. He will try to suck you back in once you leave, but don't buy it for a second....it's a lie!!!! Should you leave, cut off all contact with him and don't look back. You deserve better, so get yourself better and then the right person will automatically be drawn to you....ok?
Now find you a good therapist and make a plan of escape. This takes time, so there is no need to panic. A good therapist will help you make plans and find a place to live.
Whatever you decide.....I wish you well and the best that life has to offer (((((Hugs)))))))
I brought that up becuz I was thinking that your avatar was a pic of your boyfriend and baby?
don't let having a child(ren) hold you back from leaving.....staying will only hurt them in the long run.
It's just that's not relevant.
Who cares if he loves you? That's irrelevant. If you don't love him, give him the kick. It's never going to work. :)