Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...
I recently got out of a relationship with a girl who has borderline personality disorder... It's a condition that is hell for the people who have it and it's stems from very real issues with abuse and mistrust.. This girl has a huge heart and I consider myself to be the same way... We have been a huge source of comfort for each other but borderline can almost be like dimensiia where she forgets when she gets down... She forgets that I've been there for her and stood by her and can be even mean and not trust me for no reason... These are all classic borderline traits and I can't blame her and I'm trying so hard to be there for her but it's been so hard and lonely bc she gets so distant then when she's having a good day she needs me to be there still.. We broke up bc I couldn't keep sticking when she would push me away so hard then need me so much the next day... It's hell in a way bc she doesn't have the strength anymore to be there for me but I feel stuck being there for her bc it's not her fault and it's even preventing me from pursuing other relationships that would fill that void... I'm so lost today and confused.. I don't know what to do I feel so lost when she's having a hard day..
One the one hand you don't want to live the rest of your life with this person.
OTOH a limited friendship might be a positive thing; it could be a good thing for each. But again a long time might pass before your friend would accept a limited friendship.
She needs insight.
good luck, . Caleb