Anxiety Support Group
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I have 3 children ages 20, 14, and 5. The father of my 5 yr old has lived with us on a off for 4 yrs. About a year after he moved in, I caught him doing meth in the shed. I had no idea that he was on any drugs as I have never had any dealings with drugs. (I just thought he was a very hyper person) He is also an alcoholic. He has been abusive to me and my 5 yr old for 3 yrs. I have had him put in jail several times, order of protection, etc. Since the last jail stay, there hasn't been physical abuse. I feel that he is the reason for my 20 yr old's anxiety and panic disorder as well as mine, even though mine didn't start until 5 wks ago. It has just built up. He doesn't work but a couple of days a wk now driving a truck because of gas prices but he refuses to help me in any way. He will not help in the house or anything. He says that my kids should be the ones to help. I agree that they should do their share, but so should he. He just goes fishing and hangs out with friends while I work full time. I have voiced to him that I want him to move out but he won't. It's hard for me or my daughter to get well with this extra burden in the house.
You have got to get rid of this poor excuse of a man,
what are you doing letting him live with you after the life he has given you before he was locked up. You and your children deserve so much better than that arse hole ( excuse my language but I really hate men who treat women and children like this) The only person he loves is himself. you have got to get shot of this man for your children's sake if you can't do it out of respect for your self do it for respect for your children, you all deserve so much more. good luck to you Hun.
get rid of this bloke NOW!!!.
If hes been in prison
Done Drugs he is not a safe, dependable or loving person you can count on.
Im pretty sure here he,s a big contributing factor towards your daughters and yourself anxiety.
You both need to get well, you both deserve better and your daughter doesn,t need to see this is the kind of person you settle for, iether does your little son.
He also sounds very selfish!, he has a child with you that he doesn,t supporrt, hes only interested in what he wants not anyone eleses needs, feelings or realizing he needs to be supportive and loving, nuturing if he truely loves you all.
I would get a permanent restraining order and maybe help from an abuse victims group to help you get back to normacy in family life and some doctor, councillor help for you, your daughter and your beautiful son.
For all of your saftey and inner peace give this guy the boot NOW.
Change the locks, put his clothes out and arrange a police escort for him to a motel or family memmber and get your restraining order.
You Are All Special! And Deserve More Than This!.
Hugs And well wishes To You And Your Family!.