Are you talking about dazedanco? Well at least you have apologised,which is a good thing. But next time, think before you speak. I am aslo sorry to hear what you are going thru and hope you feel better soon.

Well, the only thing that matters is her. If she will forgive me. Anyway, nothing anyone on here can say will make me feel any worse. Just a note before I head off into the wild blue yonder. Have a good weekend everyone.

Pogo...I have to say I am grateful you made this post! I too have taken my own anxiety out on the people I call friends so I shouldn't have been so hard in my email to you!

Obviously we were both having REALLY bad days and we took it out on one another! I am sorry for my reply to you also! I just get defensive when somebody tells me not to take meds because the meds HELPME! They may not be everybody's cup of tea, but we all do whatever works for US!

I jumped on you just as much as you jumped on me! I HATE ANXIETY as much as you and I am sorry too for being so harsh!
Friends?

We are all here for the support and love of strangers who completely understand how we feel and I think when our anxiety gets high, we all tend to react instead of thinking first. I was so ticked off yesterday, I left the group, deleted almost everybody I had as a friend because I was mad and lost trust in people. I BLEW it was out of porportion (spelling) and flew off the handle.

This anxiety stinks BIG TIME! I
I may not like what somebody says, like one time this girl said outright..."I abuse xanax, I get it from 3 different doctors and I go to 4 different pharmcies(spelling) to get my xanax, so Yes you CAN abuse xanax"

I was like OMG I can't believe this girl just admitted this online. THAT IS AGAINST THE LAW, but I didn't send her an email or reply to her post, I just figured sooner or later she will regret what she is doing. (My sister almost went to jail because she did the same thing!) I was VERY angry with her basically telling me that I can very easily become addicted to xanax, but she didn't even read my post.

I cannot abuse my xanax and the dose has NEVER been raised. I DO NOT break the law, I cannot refill my rx until the day before I am out of pills and I am not an addict!

So my point is...we are all who we are and I am sorry for jumping on you! I should have also though, "hey maybe she is having a really bad day" instead I jumped the gun and didn't think either!

I am very sorry pogo!

i just read your message and still have tears in my eyes. Husband is laughing at me. He asked if I would finally quit jumping his ass cause I was so upset. Thanks for forgiving me. I will ry to be a better friend,
Jenn

Jenn...don't beat yourself up over it! I have bad days too, I just usually take it out on my husband...LOL I jumped down your throat too, so all is forgiven...NO MORE CRYING! :)

We are friends and we hit a speed bump that was pretty large and we both got a shock out of it! I am sorry for my part. No more I am sorry's, no more tears, just back to the way it was before! You are a wonderful friend....just a wonderful friend that happened to have a bad day!
tell that hubby of yours not to laugh at you...we women cry at anything...LOL

BIG HUGS! My prayers are with Coy!

Well you were wrong in what you did.But!!!we all have bad days and you had the cuts to come on here and say sorry.That shows a genuine person saying sorry and meaning it.

While what happened was not good, I am glad to see that I am not the only one who lets their anxiety overcome them and take it out on others. I mainly take it out on whoever is near, and they never deserve it, nor do they understand. I am glad thins have worked out between you too though. Hope you both have more better days ahead.

you know I am new to this group but it is WONDERFUL to see a group of adults that can handle and understand we all have bad days!!! This seems to me to be a wonderful support group and I cant wait to get to know you all better!!

Lee

Hey you guys. I had tears reading the last post from dazedandconfused. I am glad that you have both made up. And you are right, we all have off days and sometimes we say the wrong things, I have done it myself with my husband and even my best mate. Hugs to you both.

Thank you all for your support and understanding. I think the Lord worked thru us so everyone can see that misunderstandings happen and they can be worked out.
Thanks again guys.
Jenn

I look at it this way...we all have the same issues here. We may deal with that issue in different ways, but we can get pretty high stressed at times. In high school, I would come home and tell my mom..."I HATE HER! I will never speak to her again" and guess what....the next day, we are friends...BEST FRIENDS!

We would have called each other names, yelled at them, maybe even got in a fist fight, but the next day, we forgot all about it and it was never brought up again. THAT IS LIFE!

All we can do is lean on one another! Learn from our past and realize that sometimes not only is DS a place to come for support, it is also a place we come to to vent and sometimes others get caught up in that venting! It is who we are as people anxiety suffers!

here's to all of being the best of friends regardless of how we deal with our own anxiety issues!