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Head gone

sarah21
sarah21

my head is going again. I feel so confused. My mental Heath has come back worse then ever,my daughter is hard work and my fella doesn't know if he can be with me because of it all. I feel like I can't do nothing right. Everything I do is wrong. I am trying to get my daughter help to make my fella feel happy but then he tells me he doesn't know if this is what he wants. Please can someone help me? 

Pignulotta
Pignulotta
Turn to Padre Pio. He can help you. If you don't know who he is, you can find out here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flZUKsbT8Xg
Leslieg513
Leslieg513
If your fella can't accept you flaws and all...don't accept that. He is what is causing your stress and health problems. If he wants to leave let him go! Don't blame your child either...it is not her fault he is not an accepting person.
sarah21
sarah21
Am just sick of everything at the moment. It's so hard to deal it all.
bridgie101
bridgie101
How come your daughter is hard work? What's been going on that's causing that? People don't generally like to fight, so if your daughter is fighting, maybe you need to hear her out and find out what her point of view is. Hearing people can be hard with anxiety. I find I have to make a promise: to hear without panicking. Hear without arguing. Hear without blocking. To actually hear, the whole thing, all up. Really hard but you have to bite your cheek or something, and promise to hear the girl out from go to whoa, without arguing or interrupting.

As to helping you keep your boyfriend - that's not her job. Your boyfriend will feel icky that you have done this and it's to his credit that he does. He doesn't want a relationship with a woman that is propped up by that woman's daughter.

He wants you and your daughter to sort your shit out. That's different.
sarah21
sarah21
My daughter has seen my past relationships. The beatings I got off ex's and the control I suffered. Now I am with someone who treats us right amd makes us happy she just doesn't respect him. Am just really confused