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Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...

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GiaAngel 02/19/2018

My "aunt" called my today after 8 years piss drunk ,and all she did was berate me and make me feel like im worthless. She literally hates me and I am scared. I dont feel safe with her being in our lives ever again. she completely betrayed me and doesnt believe me about an incident. She is the most vile, disgusting person probably on earth in my opinon. I feel traumatized all over again from this and completely sick to my stomach. I want her gone

SeansFriend 02/20/2018

My advice would be don't bother with anyone who treats you like that. Stay away. Don't call. Don't make contact. There is no need. I had someone in my life who treated me like that and I distanced myself from this person. I refuse to have anything to do with him. Save yourself a lot of pain. And in the same breath forget what they said to you or about you. Don't give them a second more of your time or energy or thoughts. Doing this made me feel better. Hope it helps you too. Mine was also a family member. Family has no right to treat you like that any more than a friend or a stranger. Don't give them another opportunity to hurt you.

Thatoneboi 02/20/2018

mines a family member or several aswell, best advice would be to change your number and go to people who support you like ffriends or trusted family members- if they continue to harrass you like go to wear you live or something bunk with a mate for a while before you go back, hope youre okay.

MsBlank1 02/20/2018

Plain and simple. Walk away and NEVER have contact in any way shape or form again.
Go on with your life.....get counseling. Sharing DNA does not give anyone the right to abuse. WHAT YOUR AUNT DID IS ABUSIVE. Run for your life.
You can't change anyone. You can only change yourself.
This is my shiny nickels worth today and I speak from experience!!!

GiaAngel 02/20/2018

Thank you everyone for the advice, I appreciate it. I won't have any contact with her ever again. She is toxic and evil. I am okay just hope she stays away. For Good.
God Bless

MsBlank1 02/21/2018

I know my advice may have sounded a bit harsh, but you and others that are being abused deserve better than that.
Your aunt will definitely try to contact you. I don't know when.....but I assure you that she will.
Don't answer her call. Let it go to voicemail and then delete it without listening (I know it's tempting.....but don't. It will weaken your boundary cuz I assure you, it will be all sugar coated and full of groveling).
If she comes over, don't let her in. Tell her to leave and never come back or you will call the police.
Don't go to facebook and read her "smear campagne" cuz she needs to get peeps on her side.....let her.....just ignore her and stay away completely from social media.
If you have good friends concentrate on them and make new friends.
Fill your free time with positive adventures, hobbies, and people that are good......it's rewarding and time and energy well spent.
NO CONTACT is just that.......never!!!
Best of luck and know you are not alone in this. Know and be on your guard that going no contact will indeed tic her off. First she will attempt to be nice, but will soon turn ugly and painful.......just hang in there and never give your power away or you will become a victim in life.
((((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))

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