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First off I want to say thanks for whoever reads my post and gives me feedback. This is really bothering me, and I don't want to do something very irrational and brake up my relationship.
I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months, we never fight. We get along well, because we have a pretty decent schedule and meet each other half way on things.
She's great, smart, in school and is in her last year to graduate. She goes to Africa this may for some research and thats the end of it. She doesn't talk to many people, and I think I like that. I rather have someone who had a few girl friends here and there, rather than someone who parties a lot. We both work, her 24 hours, me 40 hours, and we just moved in together. This is pretty much all the background you need on her.
Also, I've been in two other main relationships and both ended sour, with the gf cheating.
Dakatoh, my new gf is great, but the last few weeks ive been having emotions build up inside me. The main reason we dont fight is I try to meet her half way, but there are a few things that are bothering me.
She's pregnant, she says we have a problem, and shes getting an abortion. very little talking, or emotions, she also said shes always been against it, but she has to do it. For africa anyways.
I personally find this very selfish, to kill a life without even discussion it with your boyfriend.
Anyways, whatever.... I'm over this.
But heres the thing that set me off yesterday.
I told her last week, that I dont want to hear stories about her manager "hitting on her" or what not.
Things that terrify me..... Things dakotah told me about him
-Hes a manager who was hitting on her
-Don't worry about him, he's married....
-The one party she went to that I wasnt invited to was a job party. And she dressed up, and was beautiful. first time she ever looked like that. Trying to impress someone?
So I might be just over analyzing this right? scared since ive been cheated on 2 times before.
well yesterday in the car she said they were talking about me. and that he just found out she was single. And she mentioned he was going through a divorce..... so he old case for me not to worry is gone.
GET THIS, hes getting a divorce because he was hitting on someone at work. he was hooking up with someone at work.
im so angry/hurt/confused... fucking hate ppl ... all evil
I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months, we never fight. We get along well, because we have a pretty decent schedule and meet each other half way on things.
She's great, smart, in school and is in her last year to graduate. She goes to Africa this may for some research and thats the end of it. She doesn't talk to many people, and I think I like that. I rather have someone who had a few girl friends here and there, rather than someone who parties a lot. We both work, her 24 hours, me 40 hours, and we just moved in together. This is pretty much all the background you need on her.
Also, I've been in two other main relationships and both ended sour, with the gf cheating.
Dakatoh, my new gf is great, but the last few weeks ive been having emotions build up inside me. The main reason we dont fight is I try to meet her half way, but there are a few things that are bothering me.
She's pregnant, she says we have a problem, and shes getting an abortion. very little talking, or emotions, she also said shes always been against it, but she has to do it. For africa anyways.
I personally find this very selfish, to kill a life without even discussion it with your boyfriend.
Anyways, whatever.... I'm over this.
But heres the thing that set me off yesterday.
I told her last week, that I dont want to hear stories about her manager "hitting on her" or what not.
Things that terrify me..... Things dakotah told me about him
-Hes a manager who was hitting on her
-Don't worry about him, he's married....
-The one party she went to that I wasnt invited to was a job party. And she dressed up, and was beautiful. first time she ever looked like that. Trying to impress someone?
So I might be just over analyzing this right? scared since ive been cheated on 2 times before.
well yesterday in the car she said they were talking about me. and that he just found out she was single. And she mentioned he was going through a divorce..... so he old case for me not to worry is gone.
GET THIS, hes getting a divorce because he was hitting on someone at work. he was hooking up with someone at work.
im so angry/hurt/confused... fucking hate ppl ... all evil
The thing that gets me, she would be like "dont worry he's married..."
She would make jokes like... he hit on me, or harrassed me" I forgot what he did, but he seems to be hitting on these women that work there.
Well, yesterday... she said... we talked about me. why is she and her manager mentioning me. I guess he just found out she had a boyfriend..... and she mentioned that he is getting a divorce for hooking up with a different petco worker.
This is getting under my skin. and just like you said, i just called her, i dont want to text her... i want her here... and i want to talk about the situation. I just hope im not blowing it out of proportion
But dam im worried... maybe she didnt cheat. shes a good girl. but she wants an abortion. and i pull out when we do it. and it would line up that one time she went the her work party "so beautiful and had so much make up on" I dont even see here like that with me.
ugh... i feel sicck.
and is she lying to me here and there, or did she just find out he was having a divorce. because she told me he was married, and that was her defence, dont worry hunny, hes married.
All I can say is, have a good heart to heart talk. Sit her down and just tell her how you feel. Explain your fears about her and her boss. Just don't accuse her of anything.
If she lies to you about anything though, I'd kick her to the curb. Because it might hurt bad now, wait for another six months of her lying or whatever.
I honestly hope that you guys can work everything out though. Keep your head up and don't let this get you down.