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Can't catch a break.

FallenAngel4
FallenAngel4

Finally something fairly decent happened.... only to be in the same starting place again. I am finding it difficult to stay positive and stay optimistic. I want to quit my second job but I can't until I know where we are going to be living. I feel like we aren't going to find something within our budget that is move in ready with no problems. I'm feeling really discouraged. We have less than 2 weeks to find something and get the process started or we won't close in time before our apartment lease expires. We've made 4 offers and 3 have fallen through, the most recent one- has some serious problems that were not disclosed prior to them accepting our offer. Add to that the stress of working two jobs, and attending college, AND the extremely fresh death of a friend? what can possibly go wrong? 

Tired
Tired
Maybe you should cut back on your college classes. And listen to soothing music and meditate to get thru this period.
darkside2276
darkside2276
is it possible to attend college online? if this is not an option is it possible to find a location somewhere closer to where your college is? I am sure you have looked at every possible option out there. I hope you stay strong. Its hard when financial burden causes people to move, been there and done that and it was not easy. I am sorry for your loss...it's a lot to take all at the same time...I hope you take it slow and keep plugging on. take care
FallenAngel4
FallenAngel4
It is not possible to cut back on my classes- I'm already a year behind (even though I'm classified as a senior) because of a screw up with my advisor back at the community college. I do attend online.
It's not even so much the financial reasons- there was a murder in the building nextdoor that rocked the entire community. It was even trending on fb in the days after it happened. We just no longer felt safe living here and we are tired of paying rent when we could be making a house payment and be free to do whatever we want.
lakeexha
lakeexha
I hope things get better, I'm in a tough stressful spot as well. Do keep in mind that you can always go to an Extended Stat or In Towne suites in between places, they are usually $1000 a month which could be less than rent depending on your location and don't require any down payment or deposit, at least you would have a room, internet connection and possibly a free breakfast in the interim. Check it out it's worth a shot, usually you can stay for as long as 6 months.
Tiff123
Tiff123
Hi, I am sorry you are going through this and for the loss of your friend. I know buying house can be an exciting time even though it can be stressful. I believe you will find a home before the apartment lease end. Keep looking and stay positive. Praying for you.
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