Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...
I don't want to break up with my boyfriend. No reason seems to be good enough. The more I get to know him (it's only been a month) the more I find things we do not have in common- he likes to drink more than I do, he works less than I do and gets more money from his parents, so he parties more than I do, he's got another year left of college. I do not want the hurt that comes from a break up. I feel like I will be lonely, regret it, miss spending time with him. He has been like a new friend to spend lots of time with, get to know, he pays for stuff. I like him as a boyfriend, but I'm watching some of these things.
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I agree it's hard to break up, but you are seeing all the 'warning signs' that he would not be ok in a long term relationship. Cut it off now, before you invest anymore of yourself, or you'll hurt more later. Being lonely is just another chance for you to learn about you, and be available when the next guy comes and hey he might be Mr. Right. You'll never find him if you are hooked up with Mr. Party :) Good Luck, and I wish you all the best. Parfie (aka Kathy)
komom
Why are you staying with him if you have all these doubts? You will be fine. If you need someone to hang out with focus on friends. Maybe you will meet the "right" peron, staying with this guy could pervent you from meeting Mr. Right.
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It doesnt mater how long you have been with someone if you have anxiety issues, it is har to say no. Thats why we get stepped on instead of steping on others. I wish I could find the middle
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