Have you talked to the school councillor about your anxiety? I understand not being
able to order in a restaurant or talk to people. Sorry your parents don't understand.

Hi Karinna...I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm 29 and I was the same way at your age. I didn't have many friends, but what helped me when I worked as a teen was getting a job at the same place my friends worked at. I will say working greatly helped me overcome some of my social anxiety, and I think it's important that you try to put yourself out there as it is a skill everyone needs as an adult. If you have no friends or friends who don't currently have jobs, try finding a place that interests you (maybe a certain store or restaurant) that has people around your same age with similar interests.

sorry, warm hugs. it makes it so much worse when the stigma towards anxiety seems every where :( perhaps seeking help somewhere else? at school and seeing counselor may be beneficial. Just remember, your not alone and be gentle with yourself, its hard dealing with anxiety and not a lot of people understand that, because they dont suffer from it... at any means, I hope they change their minds before something dramatic happens... And, darling... your young! dont worry about that stuff about job and all that, focus on yourself! love yourself!

I have a therapist and I am taking medication and none have been working. I can't put myself out there without having the worst anxiety. But thank you all for answering.

Karinna,
If the medication is not working then you need to be honest with your therapist, so that he/she can get you something that will help you. The best way to defeat fear is to face it, even if you are scared. In order to have friends you have to show yourself friendly. That is the only way you are going to defeat feeling alone. If you don't like what your family is saying then prove them wrong. You have to make some effort. If you don't how are you going to live as an adult? It is not that you can't do those things but unwilling because of a thought that is not true. You have to get out of your head. You defeat the thought with words. Even the little engine had to say I think I can, I think I can. Tell fear to get out of your life, that it is not welcome here. It will stay as long as you allow it to and it has already taken over your life. I don't know if you believe in Jesus but when you feel fear coming on you begin to say out loud, God has not given me a spirit of fear, but of love, power and a sound mind or fear nor for God is with me. Fear is trying to rob you of all of the things God has promised you. God has a good plan for your life, your life has meaning and purpose. I declare you will overcome fear, it cannot stay in your life. Fear and rejection no longer will you torment Karinna, I command you by the authority of Jesus Christ to leave Karinna now and I command peace. Holy Spirit, fill Karinna now that she know that You are real and that You love her. Reveal Your plan for her life, open her eyes of understanding that she will know Your calling upon her life. Karinna, your future is bright.

I will say this. You can change your perspective, outlook, and well-being. Take charge of your anxiety in full force. It is natural. Therefore, your natural can work it, make it work for you. Sometimes, change happens when we change a single word, a single task, a single movement.
Just because other people say ..., does NOT make it your problem. Your response will change their response when their usual response no longer fits. Their perspective of anxiety is different and based upon their experience with anxiety. So, first step is to change how you respond.
So what if it bothers you to talk. You can keep your responses to simple sentences, neutral and polite, and that will give you the ability to see that you are able to function with a base response that gives you smile, strength, and courage to keep going.
The important thing is to move forward. Take a step. Take a conversation. Repeat.
Best wishes.