Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...
So i have bein with my bf for 2 years now and he has never ever trusted me, and now he beleives that i kissed another man, when really my best friend came on to me and i brushed it off as nothing, i lost my bestfriend and now i am having extremem anxiety about my boyfriend leaving me, like one day he says he wants to be with me and the next he doesnt, and this has bein goin gon for a week now, so we were fine for a couple of days and he says he doesnt want me again and now he says he wants to start fresh last night, but now i am left with the anxiety that hne could change his mind in a second, and i cant do anything about it! what am i to do! i love him to much to loose him and he loves me, but i dont know how to handle this anxiety! are we over or are we not
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Sounds like he's got some control issues or possibly feeling way insecure, which is causing you some very bad anxiety. Which, is not fair to you. Explain this to him, tell him to make up his mind. You're toung and I'm sure you've got a lot going for you, keep that in mind.
I'm sorry you're feeling this way, and you don't deserve it. Take a stand and make your feelings known. You'll feel much better getting it off your chest.
Hugs,
LeAnne