How long has it been since you broke up? Perhaps you aren't ready to start dating again, but it might be time to get out of your own head and meet some new people. Join a book club, a knitting group, a gym, a dance class, whatever it is that you enjoy. It will give you the chance to meet people, build a community of friends to spend time with so you can build up your confidence and self esteem again. I personally have started looking for a church to go to because I think a good church is also a loving family and community, but find what works for you!

SNEEZY GAVE YOU GOOD INFORMATION, I HAVE BEEN IN MANY RELATIONSHIPS AND YOUR COME THROUGH IT BELIEVE ,IF YOU NEED SUPPORT MESSAGE ME, HUGS, SHIRLEY

You can't rely on anyone else to make you happy. You need to find it within yourself, you need to look deep down inside and see all the wonderful qualities you have and all the great things you could offer the world.

Relationships dont always work out and it sucks because we invest alot into them time money love affection all the effort for it just to fall apart but it is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all.

Take this negative experience and learn from it. I was abused by a boy for 6 years and I learned alot about myself and how a relationship should be. He isolated me from my friends and family and when I finally broke free I realized that if I would have had my family and friends there with me I would have never let the abuse go on for so long. I felt so alone once he left so I bought a kitty and she kept me company. I didnt date for the longest time I guess I just had no trust left to give at the time but the moral of the story is everyone loves and loses and everyone takes different amounts of time to heal. You need to start doing things for you go shopping call up some old friends take your mom for lunch volunteer somewhere anything you can do to reconnect with people.

Whe you least expect it the love of your life will appear :)

Best Wishes