Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...
Sometimes the best thing to do, is the hardest thing to do - just get up!
It's crazy - but if you think about it - sometimes we actually enjoy our misery - we know a walk will make us feel better, but we don't do it!
We know that watching a certain show will give us bad dreams, but we watch it anyway! Some self discipline is required to overcome anything that is not serving our best interests - and I speak for myself in this area, believe me!
May you have a happy morning! I will be thinking of you as I get up!
Love,
Purrs
Perhaps as you wake up do some deep breathing exercises and tell yourself that it is going to be a good day and try with some positive thoughts of what good things you can look forward to.
A friend suggested to me to look into Lucid Dreaming. Might be worth checking out if you have regular nightmares.
I wish you well!
I can wake up in a sweat. Heart pounding. Sometimes it takes a moment or two to figure it was just a dream not real. It can be freaky and scary.
I do not stay in bed when I wake up. I get up very soon after waking up. I put on my music, radio and get right to the day.
Clean teeth. Bathroom. All of that. The anxiety is still there but I carry on and it begins to settle. The thoughts of the nightmare, the recall may still be on my mind but I shake it off and not read into it too much.
Cortisol levels are higher in the morning too. So combine that with waking up from a nightmare. It's nuts!
But you carry on doing things and not wallow in it or dwell on the crazy nightmare or the physical sensations of anxiety you maybe having. I kinda plough through it cuz I know the nightmare is not real and anxiety is just doing its thing.
Break whatever morning cycle you are in. Change it up a bit.
Wake up. Get up. Stretch, put on radio, open shades, curtains. Begin the day with some kind of new routine.
I wish you well.
now, something i just discovered last year, because i had bout of it, is Hypnagogia Hallucinations! I did not see anything on this website about it, after doing a search. maybe most people do not know about them, and associate them with nightmares. There are nightmares, night terrors, and Hypnagogia Hallucinations. it is not considered a mental illness but a sleep disorder. Reading up on this, and reading the stories, i realized it was not just nightmares i experienced when i was young, but i had Hypnagogia Hallucinations, which are much, much worse. i am surprised not much more is known about this, or discussed, because i am assuming it does happen to more people, but they just do not know they are having one, and associate it with a nightmare.
So this thing is is a Hypnagogia Hallucinations happens at the verge of falling asleep, and waking up. It is a different transitory sleep than REM sleep the dreaming state, so it is not considered a dream. There is no dream, but it is a dreadful feeling, and sometimes you may hear things, or see things, but it is not elaborate like a dream, so there is not much to explain why we are so afraid. many times you see something that is not so much scary, but you seem awake, and you realize that thing should not be there and it terrifies you like someone was there, is there, and should not be there. Even talking about it puts a big chill down my spine.
Ok my experience with it last year was i was starting to wake up at night in my dark bedroom. I felt something, evil, horrifying, dreadful, the feeling went up my spine , and it got closer, and closer till it was right on top of me, and my only reaction was to get the heck out of there. there was something there, i swear there was, and it was evil. I jumped out of bed with CPAP still on, blankets,, etc literally throwing everything off my bed stand, blankets in tow, falling over, skinning my knee, and not stopping crawling out into he living room, and desperately trying to put on a light. i looked towards my bedroom, and was terrified, and was heavily breathing. Just as soon as it happened, i realized, or thought it was a dream. I knew it was not real, but the pure terror stayed with me, and I could not sleep at all for the rest of the night. I had to put on every light on in my apartment, and even with my bedroom light shining bright, i could not sleep out of terror until the sun came up.
My second experience maybe a fews day later as basically very simper, but i did see something. believe it or not, and it might sound silly, but i saw cut out animal sponged glued on my bedroom wall. Well this terrified me, because i thought i was wake, and who the heck would do something like that, and who came into my house, and put those there? With Hypnagogia Hallucinations you will see seemly harmless things like this, but terrifying for the reason I just said. I than felt that presence like before, and it was even more intense, got the heck out of there, and being disabled, and nerve damage in my legs, I fall down, skinned both my knees, and was extremely sore, for the adrenaline rush of running out of the bedroom, and l was laid up because of it. I could not find my glasses for the longest time, and got very frustrated. I now sleep with my glasses inside my night stand, so i do not fling them off, and break them since I cannot afford to replace them.Unfortuantly i can do nothing about my CPAP machine.
Anyway i had those two incidents last year, plus very minor ones as seeing something that was a shirt look like something else, and making me turn on the light to see what it was, and having a hard time sleeping. For the longest was not getting any sleep, and had to stay awake till the sun came up to be able to get any sleep. it was horrible, and it still has effect me till this year, and still have to sleep with the living room light on. I do not need other lights on, or have to wait till dawn, but most every night i dread it happening again, and remember it very clearly. i use to sleep in almost complete darkness, and can only do so knowing someone else is there. I am 40 years old, a man and feel like the biggest baby, but I tell you wait those terrifying feelings were real, and i had no control over my fight or flight response which also frustrated me.
i now remember having this kind of thing when i was child, and running out of my room at night, but I associated it with nightmare, and never had them as an adult until now. I associated it with anxiety, for i had a lot of it at that time, and pulled back on a lot of stuff that was causing this anxiety, and it stopped.
I also take melatonin--seems to help!