Has my. Decease affected my entire family? Yes. My husband and I have a platonic relationship now. I am mote lonily in my marriage then when I was a single living by myself. No intimacy, romance, hugs. Has my desease diabled him or the stress made him lose all the things I cherish? What constitutes emotional abuse ? Neglect? Maybe the weight iv gained turns him off. He married me healthy. What now? 19 years I can't not work support myself my smaller children r missing out on healthy mom the older teens miss the mom who foes everything but mow needs them around the clock . I am so sorry!!!!! With tears