Anger Management Support Group
Anger management commonly refers to therapeutic techniques by which someone with excessive or uncontrollable anger can control or reduce their emotions. Typical examples include the use of deep breathing and meditation as a means to relaxation. Psychologists recommend a balanced approach, which both controls the emotion and allows it to express itself in a healthy way.

When I get so irritated that I have to check myself and bring myself down, I like to do a grounding exercise. I count 5 things that i can see, 4 things that I can hear, 3 things I can touch, 2 things smell, and 1 thing that's in my control. It helps get me out of my head and back to reality. Because it's not really a them thing, it's a me thing. And the only person I can control is myself.
hope this helps