Amputees Support Group
Amputation is the removal of a body extremity by trauma or surgery. Many have undergone amputation or have been living with a missing limb since birth. In either case, life as an amputee can be challenging. This is the place to find others going through the same experiences as an amputee. Share your thoughts, troubles, and solutions with the community.
Sorry to hear what you're going through. It definitely sounds like you've thought this through. Im Allen a 51yo rbka amputee, resulting from a bone infection in my heel that just progressed too far over the course of a year. Im just over a year with my amputation and about a year with my prosthesis.
I think you've given this some careful thought. The only thing I might add... maybe get another opinion to see if there is anything possible that can give you a relatively pain free useful foot...you may have already been through this but just wanted to emphasize it. If you can talk to a prosthetist about life as an amputee and what he thinks your prognosis would be.
Life as an amputee..for me is fairly close to a normal life, pre infection. I do everything I did before all this, a physical job, coaching and a bit of hiking. There are some bumps here and there and there are a few changes (like showering sitting down). There is also the possibility of phantom pain which for some can be pretty bad...but like you mentioned you are in constant pain now.
So yeah..talk to the docs...and ask what is the longterm prognosis if you dont do the amputation...and what is it if you do? One thing to look into ...where would they have to amputate given the damage to your leg below the knee or above/thru the knee...it may not be a deal breaker but it is a bit different.
Thank you for taking the time to reply, and for the additional information. We'll see what the VA has to say and go from there. I ripped it up again last weekend, so I might have to let that heal again before they decide on the way forward, but we'll see. If they were to do it, it would be a below the knee, would would hopefully allow me a better likelihood for a return to activity vs an above the knee.
Thanks again
I'd be happy to talk with you further if you would like. You don't say where you are located, but I can help you find a local peer support group if one exists, and will share the questions I asked and how I found answers to them.