You have had the strength all along,and you will have the strength for this.I know that you must be feeling a hundred different emotions.

Take a deep breath and sit quietly for a few minutes.The answers and the strength will come.Only you know what is best for you and Rollie,so use that as your guide.You can choose the amount of care that is right for you and he.

I pray that God will wrap his arms around you,and that he will whisper,"do not be afraid,I loved him before you ever knew him"

This was my message from God and when I understood, it took away my fear. Blessings...........Cheryl

P.S.I will be up late tonight.If you get scared, pop on here and I will hold your hand for awhile.

Dear Deb,

I'm here, sending you all love and strength for this.......it is hard but it is doable......what strohm says is beautiful and true.

I know the fear you are feeling and all the mixed emotions. You are a deeply loving wife and life partner, have given Rollie everything and more.......Remember that as you walk here.....

With you in thought and prayer.....
Marianne

I'm glad we got to chat a little, and if you need to talk, just call anytime.
You will be fine even though I know it is scary for you. What Strohn said is absolutely beautiful and the total truth...when you can let go of Rollie and turn him over to God with total faith that he will take care of him, you will feel a sense of relief. Just be there for him, let him know you are there with him and I'm sure that will comfort him.

hugs.../Carolyn

Thank you ladies, you re the best.

This is when you will be tested. I'm sending you all my strength and good vibes as you will need them to stay the course.

And, I'm saying my prayer for you.

Judy

My heart goes out to you both. My prayers are being sent up as we speak and will continue as they always have.

Listen closely to everything you hear and dont think you hear.....the messages are there from Dear Rollie and God. You will hear them.

Love to you
Janel

Rollie slept through the night, he was a bit restless, his breathing is raspy and he frequently coughs and he is obviously congested. The fever is down. In fact he is still sleeping and I will let him sleep as long as possible.

Ladies, all your messages and comments are so meaningful to me.