Alcoholism Support Group
Alcoholism is the continued consumption of alcoholic beverages, even when it is negatively affecting your health, work, relationships and life. If you think alcohol is causing you to lose control, it's time to seek help. Our group is a safe place to vent, check in, get back up if you fall, and reach sobriety.
I am a senior in college researching online groups that are supportive for addictions. I am also a recovering alcoholic/addict. I truly appreciate this site as everyone seems encouraging and honest. I just checked out a different chat room and everyone was acting immature by body shaming and not staying on topic. I wish more of you were online with to converse back and forth. But I wanted to say thank you for all of the sincere posts and comments. Life is not a game and sick people like me cannot afford to not take sobriety seriously. I am sad that some people think this disease is a joke. With the world as confusing and unstable as it is, sometimes it is good to reach out and realize that I am not alone. Today was rough, but I am trudging through. I switch addictions and therefore I bought myself some chocolate to cope. I have been sober for over 5 years, yet I devour chocolate everyday. Has anyone else switched addictions?
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check out that smoke ring. It tasted really good. I smothered it with Maulls BBQ sauce which is Local to St. Louis and one of the best I ever had.....
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I was recently separated from my wife of 33 years and it's complicated. Anyway I rented a room about 15 minutes away and I see my kids about once a week. I see the people who own the house I live in once in a while but other than that I stay in my room where I do my cooking, wash dishes in the shower, read, color, and sleep. I get out at least once a day. I grocery shop and I attend 2 meetings...


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Thankyou for coming here today....You are welcomed back anytime!
God Bless
Often I am powerless over how negative I feel, and how negative my ego can allow my belief system to become. That amount of negativity and reliance on myself makes my mind think it needs some "ease and comfort" and I can find it in alcohol, chocolate, exercise, music, etc. However, it is a false and temporary sense of comfort compared to surrendering to a higher power (God).
I will always be dependent on the ease and comfort addictions bring me, no matter if I am switching them or combining them, if I am not dependent on and do not build a relationship with a loving and caring higher power, that affords me sanity.
The nature of instability that addictions ingrain inside my mind, make them seem less practical going forward after I admit I am powerless over them, and that only building a relationship with God, lost due to their nature, will rid them from my life.
I will always be prone to addiction when I try to run my life as if there is no God and it is only me who is in control. The world and life is too challenging to navigate alone at times, even though 90% of the time those challenges are overcome by myself alone.
You did wise to recognize that pocket of recovery that was shaming you as not something you wanted to be part of, there are going to be many of those in AA and recovery, because it is a liberated version of thought generally when you break down the means and principles teaching in AA, and sometimes people cannot help but be people, and often if the wrong people get together they can do no better than just be a group of non-helpful people. It doesn't mean they can't teach others how not to act though, so they did you a favor acting that way, and in recovery, many people are going to show you how not to act, and this is a good think if you can remain humble about it all.
Good luck on your research, let me know if you need a subject to interview anytime.
I take my sobriety seriously also. And life less so. It’s a good balance for me.
I am surprised when I hear statements like the ‘I’m sick or identifying as an alcoholic after years of sobriety. To me that’s like pulling along my past in a cart when I left my old ways by the roadside a while ago. I understand the vigilance and truth of recognizing what the problem was but I don’t keep my past behavior as my ongoing story.
Healing for me is the chance for a fresh start. Like you said, making the next right choice.
Like Nico sung: ‘please don’t remind me of my failures, I have not forgotten them’
I’m glad you are honest about the research. Unfortunately it bursts a little bubble I have that this site is like AA with confidentiality. Of course it’s the internet where privacy is non existent. Does effect me however as I am reluctant to comment about switching addictions. Since it’s personal lol. I will say that I did the chocolate/sugar thing for the first year and nipped that in the bud. Exercise was the helping hand there.
I hope you learn and teach others about addiction. Knowledge is power.