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An hour before bed I don't watch any movies, or TV. 1/2 hour before I go to bed I do a 10th step, and a gratitude list. along with a short journal entry. I then read, turn off the lights, say prayers esp thanks for being sober and I go to sleep.
That 1/2 hour before bed I'm not on my ipad, I'm just reading. I've found that really helps
Oh and in the first year I pretty regularly took melatonin about 3 hours before bed. It also helped alott.
Lots less caffeine, especially after 3pm, getting outside in the sun, mixing with others and not isolating, meditation and getting comofrtable sitting with myself and importantly some emotional balance/well being. That last part took some work and courage, things needed digging up and addressing but I never got anything I couldn't handle.
Now I mostly drift off pretty soon after hitting the pillow, that for me is a real blessing never thought it would happen for me. Sleep pills were a no-no I decided but I spent some time on SSRI anti-depressants, that was part of my journey. But the spiritual (non chemical/material) journey was the most important.
This too will pass.
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When I first quit drinking I was able to sleep. I needed more sleep than normal -- I think my body was trying to heal itself from years of excessive drinking.
After a few months the insomnia kicked back in. I tried every single thing I could think of to establish a good sleep routine:
-- No caffeine after 10 am
-- Regular exercise
-- Set bed time ritual (Stickywick has a good one!)
-- Warm milk in evening
-- Meditation
-- Sleep tapes
I also tried melatonin and other herbal relaxation aids. (BTW -- be careful with melatonin. My understanding is that if you take it too often or take too much it can mess with your natural melatonin levels.)
Unfortunately, I still had insomnia, and at 15 months sober I finally gave in and went to a doctor about it. I now take a non narcotic med to help me sleep. Most people can get to a point where if they work at it they can regulate their sleep patterns. I could not do it -- wish I could. (Seems to run in my family.)
You are pretty new to sobriety. It will take time for your body to adjust. You'll be okay if you have some nights where you only get a few hours sleep. Give some time -- 6 months to a year, and see if you can work it out. If not, see a doctor.
On the plus side, getting through a day without a good nights sleep is much easier than getting through a day with an awful hangover!
Meanwhile...
I'm a big fan of Melatonin, especially if I have to get up early. I don't work every day, but when I do have to go in, my starting time can vary by as much as an hour and a half. Just make sure you have 7-8 hours for sleeping. It's not something I'd take after tossing and turning for 3 hours, and have to get up in another 3 three hours.